Thursday, September 9, 2010
L got his first tooth!!!
We didnt even know that he was teething! He got his first little tooth a couple of days ago. Its a little sliver poking through, but its there. Hes in alot of pain so we're hopinh we can help him get through this with as little pain as possible. Poor little guy, hes too young to be dealing with all this.
Thursday, September 2, 2010
L rolled over for the first time today!
Today was a big day for L. He rolled over for the first time! He is a little early, they are supposed to do that at 4 months.
He has been rolling onto his side and almost getting all the way over, but today was finally the big day. I laid him on his jungle mat and turned around to check my email, and when I looked back a few seconds later he was on his belly. :-)
Way to go baby boy!!
He has been rolling onto his side and almost getting all the way over, but today was finally the big day. I laid him on his jungle mat and turned around to check my email, and when I looked back a few seconds later he was on his belly. :-)
Way to go baby boy!!
Attachment parenting
I started to read about attachment parenting when L was around 7 weeks old. I found in my reading that we were already practicing attachment parenting but werent really aware that it had a name. We were just handling him with our instincts and doing what felt right.
Before L was born I bought a Sleepy Wrap to hold and carry him in. I read at that time that babies that are "worn" develop better and faster than babies that are not. They learn to speak sooner, they are more independent, and they learn more about their world because they are spending so much time at their parents level rather than being pushed around, lying down, in a pram where they have no contact and cant see much.
I have been wearing L since the very beginning. We both love it, and it makes us both calm and happy. He does not like being in his stroller when we go out and so I dont make him. Im much happier with him on my chest, anyway, and he can see so much more.
After meeting Jack Newman who suggested cosleeping with L to help with our breast feeding relationship, and bathing with him, I started reading more and more about these things and just gradually became aware of this style of parenting called attachment parenting that Dr Sears talks alot about.
A woman that I spoke to during my breast feeding troubles at Breastfeeding Buddies suggested his "The Baby Book" and that was when we really realised that our style of parenting has a name.
A few big aspects of attachment parenting are breast feeding, baby wearing, cosleeping/bathing...etc. We only just started cosleeping/bathing when L was 7 weeks because we were afraid that cosleeping was dangerous. After looking into it and doing our own research we found that it is not dangerous at all when done properly and that the manufacturers of baby cribs are the main ones that talk about the dangers of cosleeping. (Conflict of interest?) In reality, far more babies die from SIDS in their own crib and a tiny fraction die in bed with their parents. Those who do- the parents are either obese, have been drinking or doing drugs, are overly exhausted, or are not doing it properly (must have a firm mattress, no pillows, no blankets).
Another big aspect of attachment parenting is not allowing your baby to cry it out. (CIO)
We have never let L cry for any reason. Crying is the only form of communication that a baby has and they depend on their parents or caregivers to respond to their needs. Babies are not controlling or manipulating you at this stage with their cries. We have always responded to L immediately and sensitively and the result is he trusts us and is a happy baby.
I could never put him in a crib by himself and leave him crying until he exhausts himself to sleep. It just feels too heartless to me. I cant imagine, myself, being frightened and alone and crying my heart out only to have the one person who I depend on ignore me and leave me alone. I cant imagine how horrible that would be and we have never and will never do that to our child.
We have read that those babies eventually stop crying when put down and their parents think they are such good babies and good sleepers when in reality they have simply learned that they cant trust their parents and that no one will come to them if they cry anyway, so why bother.
I also read (and its very disturbing to think about) that babies dont have a concept of mommy is in another room and not in this room. They cant understand that if they dont see you, that you are just in another room. They cant understand the concept that you exist somewhere outside of where they can see you. When you walk out of the room, you are simply gone to them. Imagine being put in a crib and being frightened, and mommy is just gone. They dont understand that you are just in the next room and that you can hear them, and they are safe.
The way we have been parenting is working beautifully for us, and we're very happy with it. Everyone has to find what works for them. All this being said- I understand that not everyone has the luxury of being a stay at home mom and that this kind of parenting might not work for you if you werent. Alot of it could be, but maybe not all of it.
This is exactly why we waited so long to have L. We knew we wanted to raise him in a certain way, and that we wanted me to be able to stay home with him until he starts school. We needed to be in a situation where we were secure enough with one income to be able to do this.
So, simply put- I wear him often, I breastfeed, we co sleep and co bathe, and we never in a million years use "cry it out." We do waht feels right. If it feels wrong to us, we dont do it. Anyone who suggests that we leave the baby to cry immediately loses our respect and we dont bother listening to their any of their advice. We are all very happy and this is working perfectly for us.
This is a link to Dr Sears' website, with alot of information about attachment parenting.
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/10/t130100.asp
Before L was born I bought a Sleepy Wrap to hold and carry him in. I read at that time that babies that are "worn" develop better and faster than babies that are not. They learn to speak sooner, they are more independent, and they learn more about their world because they are spending so much time at their parents level rather than being pushed around, lying down, in a pram where they have no contact and cant see much.
I have been wearing L since the very beginning. We both love it, and it makes us both calm and happy. He does not like being in his stroller when we go out and so I dont make him. Im much happier with him on my chest, anyway, and he can see so much more.
After meeting Jack Newman who suggested cosleeping with L to help with our breast feeding relationship, and bathing with him, I started reading more and more about these things and just gradually became aware of this style of parenting called attachment parenting that Dr Sears talks alot about.
A woman that I spoke to during my breast feeding troubles at Breastfeeding Buddies suggested his "The Baby Book" and that was when we really realised that our style of parenting has a name.
A few big aspects of attachment parenting are breast feeding, baby wearing, cosleeping/bathing...etc. We only just started cosleeping/bathing when L was 7 weeks because we were afraid that cosleeping was dangerous. After looking into it and doing our own research we found that it is not dangerous at all when done properly and that the manufacturers of baby cribs are the main ones that talk about the dangers of cosleeping. (Conflict of interest?) In reality, far more babies die from SIDS in their own crib and a tiny fraction die in bed with their parents. Those who do- the parents are either obese, have been drinking or doing drugs, are overly exhausted, or are not doing it properly (must have a firm mattress, no pillows, no blankets).
Another big aspect of attachment parenting is not allowing your baby to cry it out. (CIO)
We have never let L cry for any reason. Crying is the only form of communication that a baby has and they depend on their parents or caregivers to respond to their needs. Babies are not controlling or manipulating you at this stage with their cries. We have always responded to L immediately and sensitively and the result is he trusts us and is a happy baby.
I could never put him in a crib by himself and leave him crying until he exhausts himself to sleep. It just feels too heartless to me. I cant imagine, myself, being frightened and alone and crying my heart out only to have the one person who I depend on ignore me and leave me alone. I cant imagine how horrible that would be and we have never and will never do that to our child.
We have read that those babies eventually stop crying when put down and their parents think they are such good babies and good sleepers when in reality they have simply learned that they cant trust their parents and that no one will come to them if they cry anyway, so why bother.
I also read (and its very disturbing to think about) that babies dont have a concept of mommy is in another room and not in this room. They cant understand that if they dont see you, that you are just in another room. They cant understand the concept that you exist somewhere outside of where they can see you. When you walk out of the room, you are simply gone to them. Imagine being put in a crib and being frightened, and mommy is just gone. They dont understand that you are just in the next room and that you can hear them, and they are safe.
The way we have been parenting is working beautifully for us, and we're very happy with it. Everyone has to find what works for them. All this being said- I understand that not everyone has the luxury of being a stay at home mom and that this kind of parenting might not work for you if you werent. Alot of it could be, but maybe not all of it.
This is exactly why we waited so long to have L. We knew we wanted to raise him in a certain way, and that we wanted me to be able to stay home with him until he starts school. We needed to be in a situation where we were secure enough with one income to be able to do this.
So, simply put- I wear him often, I breastfeed, we co sleep and co bathe, and we never in a million years use "cry it out." We do waht feels right. If it feels wrong to us, we dont do it. Anyone who suggests that we leave the baby to cry immediately loses our respect and we dont bother listening to their any of their advice. We are all very happy and this is working perfectly for us.
This is a link to Dr Sears' website, with alot of information about attachment parenting.
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/10/t130100.asp
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
If you dont want to wash your hands, then dont touch our baby!!
I usually find that people are very good about keeping their hands clean and not touching or kissing L's hands and face. But then I also find that some people have no sense at all when it comes to this.
Nothing makes us cringe more than someone kneeling down and kissing his hands, or even just touching his hands. His hands are always in his mouth right now and whatver is on their hands goes right in his mouth... You would never shake someones hand and then stick your fingers in your mouth and suck on them, would you?? Being his parents we have to watch out for these things since he is not able to himself.
We have people wash their hands before touching L and now we are asking them not to touch his hands and face, also. The more we read about childhood illnesses and even just cold/flus, we dont want people passing on any more germs then what I know he will unavoidably be exposed to. Their little immune systems are just not strong enough for that kind of onslaught.
I hate that these things even have to be said to people. I just wish they had enough common sense to know better. Usually its not a problem, but you always get those few.
I find so often now people try to kiss his hands and it drives me crazy... just crazy. Since when is it ok to go around kissing peoples hands first of all. No one would ever do that to another adult but they think babies are fair game.
Anyway, gosh, that turned into quite a little rant. :-) I always hope that people wandering around online will read random little posts like this and learn from it. Dont touch or kiss anyones babies' face or hands! Parents dont like it!
:-D (Im only smiling to make this post appear to be polite, when actually its not meant to be at all. :-) lol
Nothing makes us cringe more than someone kneeling down and kissing his hands, or even just touching his hands. His hands are always in his mouth right now and whatver is on their hands goes right in his mouth... You would never shake someones hand and then stick your fingers in your mouth and suck on them, would you?? Being his parents we have to watch out for these things since he is not able to himself.
We have people wash their hands before touching L and now we are asking them not to touch his hands and face, also. The more we read about childhood illnesses and even just cold/flus, we dont want people passing on any more germs then what I know he will unavoidably be exposed to. Their little immune systems are just not strong enough for that kind of onslaught.
I hate that these things even have to be said to people. I just wish they had enough common sense to know better. Usually its not a problem, but you always get those few.
I find so often now people try to kiss his hands and it drives me crazy... just crazy. Since when is it ok to go around kissing peoples hands first of all. No one would ever do that to another adult but they think babies are fair game.
Anyway, gosh, that turned into quite a little rant. :-) I always hope that people wandering around online will read random little posts like this and learn from it. Dont touch or kiss anyones babies' face or hands! Parents dont like it!
:-D (Im only smiling to make this post appear to be polite, when actually its not meant to be at all. :-) lol
Breastfeeding help!
Ive decided that I would really like to help other mums with breastfeeding, because of all the trouble that I had with it. I really understand how heartbreaking it can be when its something you really want to do. Im looking into becoming a lactation doula/postpartum doula. Im not sure if this will work out or when, but its something Im really thinking about. I keep reading the bfing forum on WTE and there are so many women being screwed over at the hospitals. Theyre just not properly trained for bfing and mothers are paying the price for it because of their horrible advice.
When L is a little bigger I may try to make a website for help with bfing and of course suggest with all I am that people either see or contact Jack Newman.
L is doing really well. We had a family picnic over the weekend and he did really good with meeting some relatives for the first time. He let the cousins and aunties hold him and giggled and smiled for them. I was really proud of him because a week before he had a meltdown at a relatives house and I was feeling like a bad mother wondering if we hadnt been taking him out and around other people enough. I found this weekend that thats not true at all. hes a really sociable little guy when hes well rested.
When L is a little bigger I may try to make a website for help with bfing and of course suggest with all I am that people either see or contact Jack Newman.
L is doing really well. We had a family picnic over the weekend and he did really good with meeting some relatives for the first time. He let the cousins and aunties hold him and giggled and smiled for them. I was really proud of him because a week before he had a meltdown at a relatives house and I was feeling like a bad mother wondering if we hadnt been taking him out and around other people enough. I found this weekend that thats not true at all. hes a really sociable little guy when hes well rested.
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Ok... I cant believe THREE months have gone by. lol
I had been copying this blog to a journal all through my pregnancy so that baby boy would have it when hes older. Right before his birth I stopped posting here, and just continued privately with his journal where I talk about daily life with him and all of his milestones. I will try to start writing here again when I can now that things are slowing down a bit for us.
L is doing really well. He is almost to his 4 month mark now, on September 11. Next big thing on the horizon is the four month shots which I am dreading of course, even though he did really well with the 2 month shots.
He is right on track with development, and breast feeding continues to go really well for us- with all the thanks in my heart to Jack Newman and his clinic!
We are pretty well into a good routine now, and have been for the entire third month. Bedtime is great, and days are great as long as he gets the right amount of nap time. He will need between 14-16 hrs of sleep from month 3-6 and he usually gets 14. He sleeps about 10 hrs at night, gets up 3 times to nurse, and then has two 2 hr naps during the day (on a good day). His sleeping is only predictable in that his napes are about 2 hrs apart. He takes his first about 2 hrs after waking in the morning, and the second 2 hrs after the first. Usually.. there are odd days when he doesnt.
People started telling me that I should not worry so much about his naps and that I should go ahead and take him out whenever I feel like it because "he will adjust" and "learn" to sleep anywhere. Well, thanks to these people I learned the hard way that just because other peoples babies do things in a certain way dos mean all babies do things in a certain way.
I tried taking him out like that a few times and we both paid for it dearly. He does not sleep outside of home at nap time, and if he doesnt get all the sleep he needs he gets overtired and extremely cranky and worked up. Luckily for these advice givers- they dont have to mop up the mess, I do. :-)
So, needless to say we have learned to do things our own way. It simply means that if other people want to visit L, they have to go by his schedule and not their own.
I will write more soon, L just woke up from his nap and we have a few things to get done.
L is doing really well. He is almost to his 4 month mark now, on September 11. Next big thing on the horizon is the four month shots which I am dreading of course, even though he did really well with the 2 month shots.
He is right on track with development, and breast feeding continues to go really well for us- with all the thanks in my heart to Jack Newman and his clinic!
We are pretty well into a good routine now, and have been for the entire third month. Bedtime is great, and days are great as long as he gets the right amount of nap time. He will need between 14-16 hrs of sleep from month 3-6 and he usually gets 14. He sleeps about 10 hrs at night, gets up 3 times to nurse, and then has two 2 hr naps during the day (on a good day). His sleeping is only predictable in that his napes are about 2 hrs apart. He takes his first about 2 hrs after waking in the morning, and the second 2 hrs after the first. Usually.. there are odd days when he doesnt.
People started telling me that I should not worry so much about his naps and that I should go ahead and take him out whenever I feel like it because "he will adjust" and "learn" to sleep anywhere. Well, thanks to these people I learned the hard way that just because other peoples babies do things in a certain way dos mean all babies do things in a certain way.
I tried taking him out like that a few times and we both paid for it dearly. He does not sleep outside of home at nap time, and if he doesnt get all the sleep he needs he gets overtired and extremely cranky and worked up. Luckily for these advice givers- they dont have to mop up the mess, I do. :-)
So, needless to say we have learned to do things our own way. It simply means that if other people want to visit L, they have to go by his schedule and not their own.
I will write more soon, L just woke up from his nap and we have a few things to get done.
Friday, June 18, 2010
I cant believe a month has gone by!
Wow, it has really been a long time. Baby is 5 weeks 4 days today, and I cant believe how fast the time is going by. He is doing really well, and we're having lots of fun with him.
We finally have a routine in place at night. Its not easy, but we're getting through it. Dan does the first shift from 11pm-3am, and I do the rest. Baby makes alot of noises din his sleep, I mean *alot* of noises, and its really hard to sleep through them. So what we've done is Dan keeps him in his bassinette in the bedroom during his shift and I keep him in his crib in the nursery for mine. That way we both get at least some undisturbed sleep in the night. Its working so far.
He is doing really well, he started smiling the day before yesterday. The first few were for Daddy but I got mine last night. :-)
I dont have alot of time to get online, but will try to post here when I can. If anyone wants to visit just call or email and we'll work out a time. Afternoons are the best time for us,a nd weekends.
We finally have a routine in place at night. Its not easy, but we're getting through it. Dan does the first shift from 11pm-3am, and I do the rest. Baby makes alot of noises din his sleep, I mean *alot* of noises, and its really hard to sleep through them. So what we've done is Dan keeps him in his bassinette in the bedroom during his shift and I keep him in his crib in the nursery for mine. That way we both get at least some undisturbed sleep in the night. Its working so far.
He is doing really well, he started smiling the day before yesterday. The first few were for Daddy but I got mine last night. :-)
I dont have alot of time to get online, but will try to post here when I can. If anyone wants to visit just call or email and we'll work out a time. Afternoons are the best time for us,a nd weekends.
Monday, May 17, 2010
Baby boy arrived May 11!
Baby was born May 11, around 1am. He is 6 pounds, 12 oz. 19 in long. He was due May 2, and was scheduled to be induced on Wednesday/Thursday- but decided to come on his own afterall.
After 36 hours of labour, we had to have an emergency csection because his heart rate kept dropping and they did not know what was causing it. When he was born they found that his cord was wrapped around him several times, and around his neck- every contraction was choking him.
He has has alot of trouble with breast feeding. They say he was so traumatised by the birth and because he was little, that he just needs some time to learn. Yesterday was the first day that he breastfed really well on his own for a whole meal. Usually he gets a combination of my pumped milk and formula. We see the lactation consultant again tomorrow so hopefully she can help us out some more. I think he is learning, though, and the nurse we saw yesterday at the post birth clinic said that she didnt see any reason why he wouldnt continue and learn.
Every day during the day when Im not as exhausted, I try to practice with him.
We are still getting caught up on our sleep. Before the actual birth on Monday night we hadnt slept since Saturday. We were already sleep deprived before he even got here. Its been so, so hard. I have no words for how hard it has been. We would never have been able to manage if it werent for mum and teresa, and when pat came and stayed with me during the day at the hospital so Dan could go home and sleep. The baby was up pretty much all night and Dan was taking care of him.
Anyway, I think thats mainly the story for now. We are still catching up and trying to learn as much as we can before Teresa leaves on Wednesday. Every day gets a little better, I think.
We arent talking to people on the phone or anything yet. We are just barely getting things done as it is. I will do my best when I am rested and feeling ok on some days to post here with updates.
After 36 hours of labour, we had to have an emergency csection because his heart rate kept dropping and they did not know what was causing it. When he was born they found that his cord was wrapped around him several times, and around his neck- every contraction was choking him.
He has has alot of trouble with breast feeding. They say he was so traumatised by the birth and because he was little, that he just needs some time to learn. Yesterday was the first day that he breastfed really well on his own for a whole meal. Usually he gets a combination of my pumped milk and formula. We see the lactation consultant again tomorrow so hopefully she can help us out some more. I think he is learning, though, and the nurse we saw yesterday at the post birth clinic said that she didnt see any reason why he wouldnt continue and learn.
Every day during the day when Im not as exhausted, I try to practice with him.
We are still getting caught up on our sleep. Before the actual birth on Monday night we hadnt slept since Saturday. We were already sleep deprived before he even got here. Its been so, so hard. I have no words for how hard it has been. We would never have been able to manage if it werent for mum and teresa, and when pat came and stayed with me during the day at the hospital so Dan could go home and sleep. The baby was up pretty much all night and Dan was taking care of him.
Anyway, I think thats mainly the story for now. We are still catching up and trying to learn as much as we can before Teresa leaves on Wednesday. Every day gets a little better, I think.
We arent talking to people on the phone or anything yet. We are just barely getting things done as it is. I will do my best when I am rested and feeling ok on some days to post here with updates.
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Induction at 41 weeks.
We had our ultrasound this morning, and appointment with the OB this afternoon. Ultrasound showed baby is doing very well, and everything looks perfect with him.
At the OB appt we found out that things arent moving very well with me (apparently I have an extremely strong cervix), his head is not as engaged as it should be- and he is still not facing the right way. At the ultrasound, he was laying on his side- facing to my right.
We agreed that its time to induce next week. The first day will be outpatient and they will give me cervadil which is the medication that causes dilation and effacement, the second day I will be admitted and get the medication that causes contractions (like pitocin, but I dont remember what it is called.)
Thats all the news. Im really shocked that all this is happening. I never dreamed he would be this late. I asked her what the chances are of me starting on my own before then, and she said she really believes that there is an 80-90% guarantee that I will need inducement for anything to happen.
So now I just have to wait, and get through to next week. Day time isnt so bad for me.. its night time that drives me out of my mind.
At the OB appt we found out that things arent moving very well with me (apparently I have an extremely strong cervix), his head is not as engaged as it should be- and he is still not facing the right way. At the ultrasound, he was laying on his side- facing to my right.
We agreed that its time to induce next week. The first day will be outpatient and they will give me cervadil which is the medication that causes dilation and effacement, the second day I will be admitted and get the medication that causes contractions (like pitocin, but I dont remember what it is called.)
Thats all the news. Im really shocked that all this is happening. I never dreamed he would be this late. I asked her what the chances are of me starting on my own before then, and she said she really believes that there is an 80-90% guarantee that I will need inducement for anything to happen.
So now I just have to wait, and get through to next week. Day time isnt so bad for me.. its night time that drives me out of my mind.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
3 days past due date, and counting.
Today is three days past due now. Im anxiously waiting for my ultrasound and my appt on Thursday. It will be really interesting to see what is going to happen. If she is going to induce I dont know if she would do it Friday or on the weekend- or if she will wait until Monday. Ive heard they even let you go to 42 weeks sometimes. At least this ultrasound should give them an idea of baby's size, too. I dont mind waiting as long as it doesnt mean having a bruiser for a baby, either. lol
My guess is he is 7-8 lbs.
Im generally pretty comfortable, still have my moments. We went walking around the park yesterday. I didnt realise there were animals there.. it was the first time I had been to that part of the park. It was really nice, and it will be really fun to take the baby there when he gets bigger. They have all kinds of birds and animals.
It was funny at the end I had to go pee really, really, really badly.... lol I ended up having to wait on a bench while Dan went and got the car to get me, because I seriously couldnt walk like that. For a few weeks now Ive been at this point where as soon as my bladder is full I start getting really bad BH contractions until I go. So on top of all that weight sitting on my bladder, and the contractions... its really painful.
I was actually thinking as I was waddling over to the bench that I was going to pee in my pants. It was so close that I was actually trying to decide if I should sit down and just go, or walk over by the fence and go.... I did not think I was going to make it. I was picturing myself having to sit there dripping, waiting for Dan to come back and rescue me. lol Luckily I made it, though. :-)
Well, that was really TMI- but hopefully it was a good little laugh for someone. There isnt much else new. Just waiting, and wondering. Will write again probably after my appt on Thursday, and hopefully something will actually be happening then.
My guess is he is 7-8 lbs.
Im generally pretty comfortable, still have my moments. We went walking around the park yesterday. I didnt realise there were animals there.. it was the first time I had been to that part of the park. It was really nice, and it will be really fun to take the baby there when he gets bigger. They have all kinds of birds and animals.
It was funny at the end I had to go pee really, really, really badly.... lol I ended up having to wait on a bench while Dan went and got the car to get me, because I seriously couldnt walk like that. For a few weeks now Ive been at this point where as soon as my bladder is full I start getting really bad BH contractions until I go. So on top of all that weight sitting on my bladder, and the contractions... its really painful.
I was actually thinking as I was waddling over to the bench that I was going to pee in my pants. It was so close that I was actually trying to decide if I should sit down and just go, or walk over by the fence and go.... I did not think I was going to make it. I was picturing myself having to sit there dripping, waiting for Dan to come back and rescue me. lol Luckily I made it, though. :-)
Well, that was really TMI- but hopefully it was a good little laugh for someone. There isnt much else new. Just waiting, and wondering. Will write again probably after my appt on Thursday, and hopefully something will actually be happening then.
Sunday, May 2, 2010
D DAY!! and death by swelling.
Well, D day has officially arrived with no sign of baby boy. His dad is always late, so why would I think he wouldnt be, too?? lol :-D
I was feeling really off last night and thought maybe something was starting, but no- of course not. Some times I feel really good, and other times I feel really bad. Thats why I dont like being around people right now. I never know how Im going to feel from one minute to the next.
This swelling is going to be the death of me, though. The last two days got really bad again. Night before last it actually kept me up most of the night. I think I slept for maybe an hour the entire night. My hands, legs and feet just felt like they were going to split right open. I want to walk because it makes me feel better, but I think it makes the swelling worse.
Anyway, I trust my dr. She has been delivering babies for as long as I have been alive, and I imagine she has a pretty good idea of when a baby might make an appearance. She seems to think I might actually make it all the way to my next appt on thursday- so we will see.
Now if I can just get people to stop calling me every day and asking me if Im at the hospital yet. It might be just about the right time to start turning the ringers off, hmm? :-P
As bad as I some times feel, I do have to say here that I am very happy to have this little guy with me. There is nothing in the world like his little kicks in there, and I will miss that after he is born. Im just thankful to be having a healthy, full term baby at all. I have seen so many people on the forums I read who have had so much trouble, who lost their babies early on, and I know there are alot of people who cant have one to begin with. All of this is just temporary, and completely worthwhile.
I also know that I have had it pretty easy. I dont have most of the common ailments of pregnancy. Really just heart burn, and swelling but they both started pretty much at the beginning of the ninth month. I really cant complain. There are times when I really, really wish he would be born, but most of the time, Im ok and I can wait it out. It just depends on when you ask me.
Its getting hard now, though. I have to admit that Im really getting to where I need to hand him to his dad for awhile. lol
I was feeling really off last night and thought maybe something was starting, but no- of course not. Some times I feel really good, and other times I feel really bad. Thats why I dont like being around people right now. I never know how Im going to feel from one minute to the next.
This swelling is going to be the death of me, though. The last two days got really bad again. Night before last it actually kept me up most of the night. I think I slept for maybe an hour the entire night. My hands, legs and feet just felt like they were going to split right open. I want to walk because it makes me feel better, but I think it makes the swelling worse.
Anyway, I trust my dr. She has been delivering babies for as long as I have been alive, and I imagine she has a pretty good idea of when a baby might make an appearance. She seems to think I might actually make it all the way to my next appt on thursday- so we will see.
Now if I can just get people to stop calling me every day and asking me if Im at the hospital yet. It might be just about the right time to start turning the ringers off, hmm? :-P
As bad as I some times feel, I do have to say here that I am very happy to have this little guy with me. There is nothing in the world like his little kicks in there, and I will miss that after he is born. Im just thankful to be having a healthy, full term baby at all. I have seen so many people on the forums I read who have had so much trouble, who lost their babies early on, and I know there are alot of people who cant have one to begin with. All of this is just temporary, and completely worthwhile.
I also know that I have had it pretty easy. I dont have most of the common ailments of pregnancy. Really just heart burn, and swelling but they both started pretty much at the beginning of the ninth month. I really cant complain. There are times when I really, really wish he would be born, but most of the time, Im ok and I can wait it out. It just depends on when you ask me.
Its getting hard now, though. I have to admit that Im really getting to where I need to hand him to his dad for awhile. lol
Friday, April 30, 2010
Looks like Junior is going to be late.
We just got back from our 39 week ob appointment. Everything looks good, except that it looks like baby is not going to come on his due date. She doesnt seem concerned about anything at all, and said -again- that she doesnt think she will be seeing me in L&D this week.
I am supposed to make an appt to have an ultrasound at the end of the week, which is standard for all babies who come late. Its to check on their amniotic fluid levels, and the condition of the placenta.
She said that at my next appointment if nothing has progressed then we will need to start talking about a plan. So that is all the news for now. I generally feel good, but have my not so good moments. Im pretty lucky because alot of the May mothers on my forum are pretty bad off with pain and everything. My worst time is at night.. my hips hurt, and thats when my swelling gets to be at its worst and its really uncomfortable.
All in all, Im not at the end of my rope or anything.. just wondering what this little lad has in mind now, and what it means for both of us.
I am supposed to make an appt to have an ultrasound at the end of the week, which is standard for all babies who come late. Its to check on their amniotic fluid levels, and the condition of the placenta.
She said that at my next appointment if nothing has progressed then we will need to start talking about a plan. So that is all the news for now. I generally feel good, but have my not so good moments. Im pretty lucky because alot of the May mothers on my forum are pretty bad off with pain and everything. My worst time is at night.. my hips hurt, and thats when my swelling gets to be at its worst and its really uncomfortable.
All in all, Im not at the end of my rope or anything.. just wondering what this little lad has in mind now, and what it means for both of us.
Monday, April 26, 2010
Not feeling very social.
For anyone who is trying to reach me, and you cant seem to, please dont take it personally.
Im just very, very close to my due date now- and getting a little anxious. Its hard for me to small talk with people, and its really hard for me to talk to people who just want to talk about the birth. That doesnt really help me right now, it just makes me more anxious, and I dont want to feel anxious right now. (Unless, of course-like Jaunna- when I call and ask you something about it specifically. lol)
It is 6 days to Dday, and Im trying not to wonder when things are going to start. Im trying to just go with the flow, be ready for it, and just go with it.
So needless to say, I havent been feeling very social lately. Every now and then I want to go out and walk around the stores, or the neighbourhood, but beyond that- Im just waiting, and trying to keep my calm. :-)
Im just very, very close to my due date now- and getting a little anxious. Its hard for me to small talk with people, and its really hard for me to talk to people who just want to talk about the birth. That doesnt really help me right now, it just makes me more anxious, and I dont want to feel anxious right now. (Unless, of course-like Jaunna- when I call and ask you something about it specifically. lol)
It is 6 days to Dday, and Im trying not to wonder when things are going to start. Im trying to just go with the flow, be ready for it, and just go with it.
So needless to say, I havent been feeling very social lately. Every now and then I want to go out and walk around the stores, or the neighbourhood, but beyond that- Im just waiting, and trying to keep my calm. :-)
39 weeks, and no stretch marks.
So Im very happy, and very leery all at the same time. I have finally reached 39 weeks, and still no sign of stretch marks. I am really hoping that it continues this way, but every day that goes by I worry they will suddenly just appear. I have heard of some women getting them after the baby is born... which really doesnt make sense to me.
Before I was just hoping I would get through my maternity pictures with no stretch marks, but I never dreamed I would go this far without them. I dont know if its true now what they say about it being hereditary. I know for sure that it does run in the family. Im not sure if its because my skin is a little darker and the other women in the family are really fair- or what.
They also say it doesnt matter what creams or oils you use- if you are going to get them, then you will get them.
So, here is what I did- if it helps someone else, great.. if not, then I dont know what the causes are or what to do about it. No one seems to know why some people get them and some dont. I have eaten really well through my pregnancy, and continued exercising. I walked 30 min a day 4-5 days a week, and I didnt gain too much more weight than what I was supposed to gain.
I started out from the very beginning using palmers cocoa butter. Then when I started showing I used baby oil after every shower, and palmers before bed.
Around the beginning of the middle of month 7 (cant remember exactly) I stopped using baby oil and cocoa butter and switched to Curel Life Stages Pregnancy & Motherhood lotion. Just simply because I ran out of oil, and I couldnt tolerate the smell of the palmers anymore. So Ive been using the Curel after every shower, and before bed.
Hopefully my luck will continue. If not, Im not worried about that, either. I signed up for all of it and knew that those things were a possibility. I can still keep hoping, though!! :-D
Before I was just hoping I would get through my maternity pictures with no stretch marks, but I never dreamed I would go this far without them. I dont know if its true now what they say about it being hereditary. I know for sure that it does run in the family. Im not sure if its because my skin is a little darker and the other women in the family are really fair- or what.
They also say it doesnt matter what creams or oils you use- if you are going to get them, then you will get them.
So, here is what I did- if it helps someone else, great.. if not, then I dont know what the causes are or what to do about it. No one seems to know why some people get them and some dont. I have eaten really well through my pregnancy, and continued exercising. I walked 30 min a day 4-5 days a week, and I didnt gain too much more weight than what I was supposed to gain.
I started out from the very beginning using palmers cocoa butter. Then when I started showing I used baby oil after every shower, and palmers before bed.
Around the beginning of the middle of month 7 (cant remember exactly) I stopped using baby oil and cocoa butter and switched to Curel Life Stages Pregnancy & Motherhood lotion. Just simply because I ran out of oil, and I couldnt tolerate the smell of the palmers anymore. So Ive been using the Curel after every shower, and before bed.
Hopefully my luck will continue. If not, Im not worried about that, either. I signed up for all of it and knew that those things were a possibility. I can still keep hoping, though!! :-D
Friday, April 23, 2010
Sunny side up baby.
So Ive been doing some reading about sunny side up babies, and talking to some other May mums on my forum, and my conclusion is that its not something I can worry about. One mother is pregnant with her 4th baby and they have all been sunny side up at delivery.
It usually does mean more damage to the mother at birth, but again, worrying isnt going to help me.
I did read that babies can roll and change position even during labour, so even if he was face down right now there would still be a possibility that he could change again. It doesnt seem likely that he will change out of this position now, but you never know. It looks like they just allow them to come out that way.
I can definitely feel how low he is now. We went to the pottery show today, and walking isnt too bad, but sitting in the car is actually worse. Every bump is misery. Im still not complaining though, because I have loved being pregnant, and I really have had fun having him with me. It will make me a little sad when its over because we really dont think we will be having more than one baby.
Anyway, nothing actually new. Just found this new info about position interesting.
It usually does mean more damage to the mother at birth, but again, worrying isnt going to help me.
I did read that babies can roll and change position even during labour, so even if he was face down right now there would still be a possibility that he could change again. It doesnt seem likely that he will change out of this position now, but you never know. It looks like they just allow them to come out that way.
I can definitely feel how low he is now. We went to the pottery show today, and walking isnt too bad, but sitting in the car is actually worse. Every bump is misery. Im still not complaining though, because I have loved being pregnant, and I really have had fun having him with me. It will make me a little sad when its over because we really dont think we will be having more than one baby.
Anyway, nothing actually new. Just found this new info about position interesting.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
10 more days, baby has dropped, but no dilation....
We just got back from our 38 week ob appt. Everything looks good.
Baby has dropped, but his head is not actually putting any pressure on my cervix yet, which is what starts dilation. Ive been telling Dan this week that I feel like nothing is happening. I only occasionally feel alot of pressure, but it always goes away.
So, no dilation yet, and the one thing I dont like the sounds of is that he is facing up instead of towards by back. She didnt think this was a problem, she said he can still turn around. It worries me because when they are facing up instead of towards your back- thats when you end up with back labour which is supposed to be horrendous.
She said that I should have fun this weekend and go out for dinner, go to the movies. My next appt is on Friday, and that is a couple of days before my due date. Im just trying to keep my go with the flow attitude and not worry about it. Whatever is going to happen, will happen. I just really hope he isnt late. The longer he stays in there, the bigger hes going to get. I hear its common for first babies to be late so I hope thats not what hes up to.
So that is the news for now. We're going to the pottery show this weekend because I broke our milk pitcher last week. I think if you are able to, walking is really good at this point to get things moving. Im still walking 30 min a day on the treadmill and doing ok with that.
Will write again if anything new happens.
Baby has dropped, but his head is not actually putting any pressure on my cervix yet, which is what starts dilation. Ive been telling Dan this week that I feel like nothing is happening. I only occasionally feel alot of pressure, but it always goes away.
So, no dilation yet, and the one thing I dont like the sounds of is that he is facing up instead of towards by back. She didnt think this was a problem, she said he can still turn around. It worries me because when they are facing up instead of towards your back- thats when you end up with back labour which is supposed to be horrendous.
She said that I should have fun this weekend and go out for dinner, go to the movies. My next appt is on Friday, and that is a couple of days before my due date. Im just trying to keep my go with the flow attitude and not worry about it. Whatever is going to happen, will happen. I just really hope he isnt late. The longer he stays in there, the bigger hes going to get. I hear its common for first babies to be late so I hope thats not what hes up to.
So that is the news for now. We're going to the pottery show this weekend because I broke our milk pitcher last week. I think if you are able to, walking is really good at this point to get things moving. Im still walking 30 min a day on the treadmill and doing ok with that.
Will write again if anything new happens.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Visitors.
I posted not long ago about our plans for visitors, but we see the time has come to post again. :-)
We have been rather bombarded with people's opinions on how things should be going as far as visitors when the baby is born, so again this is to let everyone know how it is going to be.
We will not be allowing any overnight visitors until we feel settled in with the baby and have some kind of routine. We will have our own bonding time, just the three of us, for as long as needed before alot of visitors start coming in. We will let both sides of the family know when we are ready for visitors.
Also, and most importantly- we do not want anyone at the hospital. We want time alone as a family before others can be introduced into the situation. We will not be notifying anyone when labour begins and when we go to the hospital. The grandparents will be phoned when the baby is born, and we will notify the rest of our families and close friends probably by email as soon as we can. We will not be having anyone at our house the day the baby comes home. This time is going to be spent bonding and getting used to caring for baby, and for me to recover from the birth.
We understand that family wants to meet the new addition, but we want our own time also. We will be using google live video chat so that relatives who are far away can see the baby, so if this is something that anyone wants to do you can let us know and we will send you our contact information for google.
Please respect our wishes, and we will be sure to keep everyone updated on the baby when he arrives.
We have been rather bombarded with people's opinions on how things should be going as far as visitors when the baby is born, so again this is to let everyone know how it is going to be.
We will not be allowing any overnight visitors until we feel settled in with the baby and have some kind of routine. We will have our own bonding time, just the three of us, for as long as needed before alot of visitors start coming in. We will let both sides of the family know when we are ready for visitors.
Also, and most importantly- we do not want anyone at the hospital. We want time alone as a family before others can be introduced into the situation. We will not be notifying anyone when labour begins and when we go to the hospital. The grandparents will be phoned when the baby is born, and we will notify the rest of our families and close friends probably by email as soon as we can. We will not be having anyone at our house the day the baby comes home. This time is going to be spent bonding and getting used to caring for baby, and for me to recover from the birth.
We understand that family wants to meet the new addition, but we want our own time also. We will be using google live video chat so that relatives who are far away can see the baby, so if this is something that anyone wants to do you can let us know and we will send you our contact information for google.
Please respect our wishes, and we will be sure to keep everyone updated on the baby when he arrives.
38 weeks 1 day.
So we are 38 weeks 1 day today. Things are going really well for the most part. I cant complain too much. I have been having worse heart burn the past two weeks or so, and have been having some dizziness and seeing stars the past couple of days. I went to the pharmacy yesterday and checked my blood pressure- its normal. I havent been able to get ahold of my obs office to ask about it, but Im not as concerned at the moment because it hasnt happened much today.
Our diaper service started today. We are using cloth diapers, and we found an excellent diaper service that drops off unlimited fresh diapers once a week and whisk away the dirty ones. No yucky work on our part. We just have to get around to buying the covers for them before he arrives. I keep forgetting to do that. They say he only needs 2 newborn covers and 2 small ones.
Everything is as ready as it can possibly be for baby boy to arrive. The bags are packed, his little bag is packed with his coming home outfit and everything he needs at the hospital. We are all systems go.
My next appointment is Thursday, and Im really hoping it comes quickly. They said last week that she will start checking this week for dilation/effacement. I really hope something is happening.... it will make me feel much better to know that things are moving along like they should.
Our diaper service started today. We are using cloth diapers, and we found an excellent diaper service that drops off unlimited fresh diapers once a week and whisk away the dirty ones. No yucky work on our part. We just have to get around to buying the covers for them before he arrives. I keep forgetting to do that. They say he only needs 2 newborn covers and 2 small ones.
Everything is as ready as it can possibly be for baby boy to arrive. The bags are packed, his little bag is packed with his coming home outfit and everything he needs at the hospital. We are all systems go.
My next appointment is Thursday, and Im really hoping it comes quickly. They said last week that she will start checking this week for dilation/effacement. I really hope something is happening.... it will make me feel much better to know that things are moving along like they should.
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
37 week OB appointment.
We had our 37 week appointment with the OB today. Everything looks good. Its just down to waiting for the baby to come, now. Next week she will begin checking for dilation.
I asked her about the BH contractions and if/when they should be worrying- and she said they are not. Its not a problem at this point, and that if they are five minutes apart and lasting for a minute then its time to go to Labour and Delivery.
So really its just waiting for it all to begin. Im feeling not great these days. My legs and feet hurt so badly sometimes from the swelling that I just dont know what to do about it. Im holding onto so much fluid these days that I feel like a giant water balloon. Ive really loved being pregnant, but its definitely getting to be time for this little guy to be born.
Im sure I will probably be writing again before then, but my next appointment is Thursday.
I asked her about the BH contractions and if/when they should be worrying- and she said they are not. Its not a problem at this point, and that if they are five minutes apart and lasting for a minute then its time to go to Labour and Delivery.
So really its just waiting for it all to begin. Im feeling not great these days. My legs and feet hurt so badly sometimes from the swelling that I just dont know what to do about it. Im holding onto so much fluid these days that I feel like a giant water balloon. Ive really loved being pregnant, but its definitely getting to be time for this little guy to be born.
Im sure I will probably be writing again before then, but my next appointment is Thursday.
Monday, April 12, 2010
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Nursery pictures.
Three more weeks until Dday! :-D We are still thinking that his date isn't correct, though. It was originally April 27th, and they changed it at the end of the first trimester to May 2nd, which didnt make sense to us. We are thinking he might be an April baby, but we'll see.
Here are a few pictures of the baby's room. It has been finished for quite awhile, but I kept forgetting to take pictures. Before anyone has a freak out and leaves comments about the dangers of crib bumpers- I am fully aware. It came with the set and is in the crib at the moment for pictures only. It is not staying there.
Here are a few pictures of the baby's room. It has been finished for quite awhile, but I kept forgetting to take pictures. Before anyone has a freak out and leaves comments about the dangers of crib bumpers- I am fully aware. It came with the set and is in the crib at the moment for pictures only. It is not staying there.
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
36 week OB appointment.
Today was our 36 week appointment with the OB. Everything looks really good with baby. My blood pressure is up some, and I have Edema, but they will keep an eye on it. I forgot to mention the BH Ive been having, but thats no surprise. I dont remember anything these days unless its written down. Im not worried about it, though, it seems to be perfectly normal.
She did my group b strep test today, also, results will be back next week.
I start seeing her every week now. Next appointment is next Wednesday.
She did my group b strep test today, also, results will be back next week.
I start seeing her every week now. Next appointment is next Wednesday.
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Braxton Hicks and SWELLING....
Friday evening I started having regular BH. I counted four in one hour. Ive been having them regularly ever since, but not so much that Im concerned or anything. I am almost there, after all.
Swelling began Friday evening, and also have had it ever since. It is mainly in my ankles/feet, and mainly on the right side. All of these things are happening to the other mammas on the WTE board, as well, so again- not worried. I feel generally swollen and large this weekend, so for some reason I am holding on to my water. Ive read the best thing to do is drink lots of water.... for both the swelling and the BH, so Ive been trying to do that. Im thinking the swelling might also have something to do with the sudden warm weather we've been having.
My next appt with the OB is this Wednesday so I will mention all of this to her. This week I have to have the GroupB Strep testing. Its a routine test they do for all pregnant women around this time. I imagine she will begin doing cervical checks then also, but Im not sure. I read that some Drs check that over the last few weeks, and some dont because it is supposed to be very uncomfortable. I also imagine she will start having me come in weekly now.
We made a big batch of perozhki today, to freeze for quick meals after baby is born. I would like to freeze a couple of other things but Im not sure what.. maybe lasagna. Im really tired of soup after making it all winter.
There isnt much else new at the moment. Im trying to deal with my swelling, but not alot seems to help. Its just annoying. I will write again probably after the appt on Wednesday.
Swelling began Friday evening, and also have had it ever since. It is mainly in my ankles/feet, and mainly on the right side. All of these things are happening to the other mammas on the WTE board, as well, so again- not worried. I feel generally swollen and large this weekend, so for some reason I am holding on to my water. Ive read the best thing to do is drink lots of water.... for both the swelling and the BH, so Ive been trying to do that. Im thinking the swelling might also have something to do with the sudden warm weather we've been having.
My next appt with the OB is this Wednesday so I will mention all of this to her. This week I have to have the GroupB Strep testing. Its a routine test they do for all pregnant women around this time. I imagine she will begin doing cervical checks then also, but Im not sure. I read that some Drs check that over the last few weeks, and some dont because it is supposed to be very uncomfortable. I also imagine she will start having me come in weekly now.
We made a big batch of perozhki today, to freeze for quick meals after baby is born. I would like to freeze a couple of other things but Im not sure what.. maybe lasagna. Im really tired of soup after making it all winter.
There isnt much else new at the moment. Im trying to deal with my swelling, but not alot seems to help. Its just annoying. I will write again probably after the appt on Wednesday.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Exploring daddy
The night before last we were laying on our sides in bed and Dan was behind me with his arm over my belly. The baby started out giving his arm a couple of little kicks, and then he got more interested. It was like he recognised that there was something there that is not usually there.
So the baby started to kick at the top of his arm and wait a few seconds and then kick at his wrist. Then he started at the top and he would give live nudges all the way down Dans arm to his wrist, wait a few seconds, and then go back up again. It was so funny.
After a little while Dan started poking back at him and then he went perfectly still like he was shocked that this strange thing was interacting with him. I dont know if he got frightened or what, but he got really still after that.
It was very cute. Its going to be really nice to finally have him here. Not much longer now, only 4 1/2 weeks to go.
So the baby started to kick at the top of his arm and wait a few seconds and then kick at his wrist. Then he started at the top and he would give live nudges all the way down Dans arm to his wrist, wait a few seconds, and then go back up again. It was so funny.
After a little while Dan started poking back at him and then he went perfectly still like he was shocked that this strange thing was interacting with him. I dont know if he got frightened or what, but he got really still after that.
It was very cute. Its going to be really nice to finally have him here. Not much longer now, only 4 1/2 weeks to go.
Sunday, March 28, 2010
Maternity photos and belly casting
Yesterday we had the maternity photo session and it went really well. The photographer was great, and I cant wait to see how the pictures turn out. We have a maternity/newborn package, so the baby will be going in for his pictures probably within the first ten days after he is born. She does really great work, so Im excited to see how they turn out.
She is expecting also, she is a week behind me. She may not be the one doing the newborn session for that reason, but she has a partner there that can do it if needed.
Today was the belly casting, and it went really well, too. Im not sure how we are going to decorate it just yet. She knows artists who can do all kinds of amazing things with them, but its a little pricey. The good thing about it is that even if we paint it now, and it can be repainted again later. I think I will paint it a sort of bronze metallic colour for now, and possibly some day have something more detailed on it later.
I cant believe that these are both done now. I always knew, even long before I was pregnant, that I wanted to do this stuff and now its done. I remember making the arrangements early on in my pregnancy and thinking how far off it was. It just means Im that much closer to Dday and thats exciting and scary at the same time.
This week Im going to be getting more things ready to go to the hospital, so that I can feel more relaxed that things are ready should anything happen earlier then we expect. I know I have five more weeks, but I cant explain how the mind works at this time in pregnancy. There is some kind of feeling of needing to have everything ready that I cant control. I know it can happen anytime after 36 weeks and I am 35 tomorrow. It doesnt hurt anything to be ready, and if it makes me mroe relaxed than thats all the better.
She is expecting also, she is a week behind me. She may not be the one doing the newborn session for that reason, but she has a partner there that can do it if needed.
Today was the belly casting, and it went really well, too. Im not sure how we are going to decorate it just yet. She knows artists who can do all kinds of amazing things with them, but its a little pricey. The good thing about it is that even if we paint it now, and it can be repainted again later. I think I will paint it a sort of bronze metallic colour for now, and possibly some day have something more detailed on it later.
I cant believe that these are both done now. I always knew, even long before I was pregnant, that I wanted to do this stuff and now its done. I remember making the arrangements early on in my pregnancy and thinking how far off it was. It just means Im that much closer to Dday and thats exciting and scary at the same time.
This week Im going to be getting more things ready to go to the hospital, so that I can feel more relaxed that things are ready should anything happen earlier then we expect. I know I have five more weeks, but I cant explain how the mind works at this time in pregnancy. There is some kind of feeling of needing to have everything ready that I cant control. I know it can happen anytime after 36 weeks and I am 35 tomorrow. It doesnt hurt anything to be ready, and if it makes me mroe relaxed than thats all the better.
Friday, March 26, 2010
Baby visitors
We have been trying to work out how to manage visitors etc when baby is born. It is a little bit of a difficult situation with my side of the family since they are so far away. Alot of people want to come and visit when he gets here, which is wonderful, but we don't want to overload ourselves at that time. Its going to take us some time to get used to the baby and get into some kind of routine with him, not to mention who can say what my recovery is going to be like and how I will be feeling. We would also rather not have little ones staying at this time to be sure that the noise and excitement level in the house stays at a minimum.
The conclusion we came to as far as travelling visitors is that we cant say at this point when will be a good time to come. The priority will of course be the grandparents, and so we have told mum and dad that they can come up maybe 2 weeks after he is born, depending on how things are going.
There are just too many out of town family members, and we dont want to wear ourselves down too much while trying to be first time parents. This isnt meant to offend anyone, but just to say that we have to see how things go before we start telling people when they can come.
Also, I wont be posting pictures of the baby on the blog or on facebook. We will be setting up a private album for anyone that wants to see pictures of him when he arrives. The privacy settings for photos and personal information are not good for facebook and blogs, and we're not comfortable having pictures of our baby out there for the entire public to view. We will let family and friends know when we have the album ready to view.
We will do our best to let everyone know what is going on when he arrives, and have pictures available as soon as we can, but will have to hold off on visitors until we see how things are going. We really hope everyone understands.
The conclusion we came to as far as travelling visitors is that we cant say at this point when will be a good time to come. The priority will of course be the grandparents, and so we have told mum and dad that they can come up maybe 2 weeks after he is born, depending on how things are going.
There are just too many out of town family members, and we dont want to wear ourselves down too much while trying to be first time parents. This isnt meant to offend anyone, but just to say that we have to see how things go before we start telling people when they can come.
Also, I wont be posting pictures of the baby on the blog or on facebook. We will be setting up a private album for anyone that wants to see pictures of him when he arrives. The privacy settings for photos and personal information are not good for facebook and blogs, and we're not comfortable having pictures of our baby out there for the entire public to view. We will let family and friends know when we have the album ready to view.
We will do our best to let everyone know what is going on when he arrives, and have pictures available as soon as we can, but will have to hold off on visitors until we see how things are going. We really hope everyone understands.
Thursday, March 25, 2010
OMG
Just a quick thought....
OMG, my pregnancy ticker (above) is driving me crazy. Every time I look at my blog Im reminded of how quickly D-Day is approaching, and it is approaching very quickly.
5 weeks? Are you kidding me?? Everyone talks about how slowly pregnancy drags on, and it just lasts forever.... not this one.
I know logically that we are ready, and that we have everything we need for the baby- but Ive got some severe nesting going on. I feel like the house has to be pristine at all times (which it never is) and everything has to be ready and in its place. Its driving me slightly mad..
OMG, my pregnancy ticker (above) is driving me crazy. Every time I look at my blog Im reminded of how quickly D-Day is approaching, and it is approaching very quickly.
5 weeks? Are you kidding me?? Everyone talks about how slowly pregnancy drags on, and it just lasts forever.... not this one.
I know logically that we are ready, and that we have everything we need for the baby- but Ive got some severe nesting going on. I feel like the house has to be pristine at all times (which it never is) and everything has to be ready and in its place. Its driving me slightly mad..
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
34 weeks and 5 lb baby!
We just got back from our 34 week OB appointment. She said baby had a big growth spurt since his last ultrasound and is now in the 24th percentile not the 9th. They approximate that he weighs around 5 lbs now. She said we are both healthy and doing very well, nothing to worry about.
I mentioned the pains Ive been having but she seems to think they are normal.
We went to Dans friend Muhannad's house over the weekend for a bbq with them. Their baby, Ameen, is 6 weeks old now. Farzana is the one who was exactly three months ahead of me with her pregnancy ( I dont know if Ive mentioned them in this blog before or not. They had Ameen on February 3rd, and we are due May 2nd. Anyway, bringing it up because Dan really liked spending time with Ameen and holding him. He wasnt scared off by his fussing or crying, so that was a good sign. When we got home he kept saying that seeing Ameen made him really excited for out little guy to arrive.
Ive really enjoyed my pregnancy, but I think we are both ready for him to be born. I cant wait to see his little face for the first time and hold his little hand. It will be really interesting to actually meet him and have him here with us. I hope hes an easygoing baby!
So, everything is healthy and normal with us and baby is growing well. Next appt is in another two weeks. Im sure Ill probably write before then, but if not, I will update after the next appt.
I mentioned the pains Ive been having but she seems to think they are normal.
We went to Dans friend Muhannad's house over the weekend for a bbq with them. Their baby, Ameen, is 6 weeks old now. Farzana is the one who was exactly three months ahead of me with her pregnancy ( I dont know if Ive mentioned them in this blog before or not. They had Ameen on February 3rd, and we are due May 2nd. Anyway, bringing it up because Dan really liked spending time with Ameen and holding him. He wasnt scared off by his fussing or crying, so that was a good sign. When we got home he kept saying that seeing Ameen made him really excited for out little guy to arrive.
Ive really enjoyed my pregnancy, but I think we are both ready for him to be born. I cant wait to see his little face for the first time and hold his little hand. It will be really interesting to actually meet him and have him here with us. I hope hes an easygoing baby!
So, everything is healthy and normal with us and baby is growing well. Next appt is in another two weeks. Im sure Ill probably write before then, but if not, I will update after the next appt.
34 week OB appointment
Today is our 34 week appointment with our OB. We had our follow up ultrasound last Friday morning to follow up on baby's growth, so we should get the results from that today.
I have a feeling the baby has either dropped, or begun to drop pretty significantly. For one thing Im not having as much trouble breathing, and also there is alot of pressure down low most of the time. Not sure what it all means, but I guess we will find out today.
I had some trouble last Friday night and almost went to the hospital. I wasnt sure if it was contractions or not. I was on my hands and knees on the floor in alot of pain, but I dont really think it was a contraction. Will have to ask about that today, too. It was a 7 -10 for pain, so it really scared us.
Im starting to get our bags packed for the hospital. Baby's bag is pretty much ready, we just have to add his sweater and hat set when Dans aunt is finished with it. Our things are as organized as they can be at this point. I just need to actually get them in a bag, and then the rest is last minute things the day we go. Its only 5 more weeks now, and they tell me any time after 36 weeks it can happen. Last week was really uncomfortable for me, but its a little better now.
The baby moved at some point also, since my last appt. He was on my right side, head down, for a long time- and now hes on my left side, head down, with his legs wrapped around to my right side. He very often has his feet tucked up under my ribs. It doesnt really hurt, but it feels like alot of pressure sometimes. He fights me now, too, when I try to push them down. He pushes back as hard as he can. He just really likes them there for some reason.
I will update after our appt this afternoon.
I have a feeling the baby has either dropped, or begun to drop pretty significantly. For one thing Im not having as much trouble breathing, and also there is alot of pressure down low most of the time. Not sure what it all means, but I guess we will find out today.
I had some trouble last Friday night and almost went to the hospital. I wasnt sure if it was contractions or not. I was on my hands and knees on the floor in alot of pain, but I dont really think it was a contraction. Will have to ask about that today, too. It was a 7 -10 for pain, so it really scared us.
Im starting to get our bags packed for the hospital. Baby's bag is pretty much ready, we just have to add his sweater and hat set when Dans aunt is finished with it. Our things are as organized as they can be at this point. I just need to actually get them in a bag, and then the rest is last minute things the day we go. Its only 5 more weeks now, and they tell me any time after 36 weeks it can happen. Last week was really uncomfortable for me, but its a little better now.
The baby moved at some point also, since my last appt. He was on my right side, head down, for a long time- and now hes on my left side, head down, with his legs wrapped around to my right side. He very often has his feet tucked up under my ribs. It doesnt really hurt, but it feels like alot of pressure sometimes. He fights me now, too, when I try to push them down. He pushes back as hard as he can. He just really likes them there for some reason.
I will update after our appt this afternoon.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Monday, March 15, 2010
NF trip
Our trip down to NF was really good. It was really nice to see mum and dad. I wish we didnt live so far away and they could be more a part of all of this, but thats just how things are. We had a nice time with them, and mum got to feel baby move a couple of times so that was nice.
He isnt even born yet and she already is spoiling him rotten. She sent three big bags of clothes, toys, and books for him. Everything was really cute, and he has lots of clothes now. I had her pick me up some of the old fashioned, flat cloth diapers so that I can use them as burp cloths for him. Thats what she always used, and my older sister always used them for that too. They are the perfect size and really absorbent. She got us a different kind, too, that are really nice. I had been having alot of trouble finding something to use as burp cloths here. I cant find that type of cloth diaper, and when I ask other moms they always say that they use receiving blankets as burp cloths. I really didnt want to do that, so Im glad it is all settled now.
Mum has lots of fun shopping for the baby. It really is too bad that we live so far away because we cant do any of that together. They will be coming up to visit after he is born, but we're not sure when. Ive asked people to wait until we see how things are going. I dont know how Im going to be feeling right after he is born and we want time to adjust to it all. I imagine 1-2 weeks after he is born, but we'll have to wait and see. I have no idea what to expect.
His room is pretty much finished now. We just need to hang his letters and decorations up on the wall. I finished all of my shopping yesterday. I didnt have much left but I had a few little things that just never seemed to get picked up.
Its getting harder and harder for me to go out shopping and walk around malls or stores so I decided that I needed to just go and get it all finished so I dont have to worry about it anymore. Its nice to have it all done now.
He isnt even born yet and she already is spoiling him rotten. She sent three big bags of clothes, toys, and books for him. Everything was really cute, and he has lots of clothes now. I had her pick me up some of the old fashioned, flat cloth diapers so that I can use them as burp cloths for him. Thats what she always used, and my older sister always used them for that too. They are the perfect size and really absorbent. She got us a different kind, too, that are really nice. I had been having alot of trouble finding something to use as burp cloths here. I cant find that type of cloth diaper, and when I ask other moms they always say that they use receiving blankets as burp cloths. I really didnt want to do that, so Im glad it is all settled now.
Mum has lots of fun shopping for the baby. It really is too bad that we live so far away because we cant do any of that together. They will be coming up to visit after he is born, but we're not sure when. Ive asked people to wait until we see how things are going. I dont know how Im going to be feeling right after he is born and we want time to adjust to it all. I imagine 1-2 weeks after he is born, but we'll have to wait and see. I have no idea what to expect.
His room is pretty much finished now. We just need to hang his letters and decorations up on the wall. I finished all of my shopping yesterday. I didnt have much left but I had a few little things that just never seemed to get picked up.
Its getting harder and harder for me to go out shopping and walk around malls or stores so I decided that I needed to just go and get it all finished so I dont have to worry about it anymore. Its nice to have it all done now.
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
32 week OB appointment
We had our 32 week appt today with the OB. She said everything looks really good. My ultrasound results showed that the placenta is healthy, baby is healthy and growing, and everything is going as it should be.
Baby is still small she said, but very healthy. She is not worried about him at all. We do have to have another ultrasound in another week or so to check up on his growth. They think he is about 3 1/2 pounds now. Everything Ive read about growth at this point says most of them usually weigh around 4 pounds at this point, so he isnt far off. She said he is in the 9th percentile.
Either way, though, she said he is doing really well and she is not worried about him.
Night time has been bad for me the past few nights. I keep hoping it will change, but it doesnt really. Im actually thinking about having Dan bring the recliner up from the basement so I can try sleeping in it.
The problem is that when I lay on my left side, the baby gets mad at the mattress and beats on it. When I lay on my right side he puts his foot up under my ribs and it tickles like crazy. It feels like a bug crawling under my skin.
Also, Ive been ending up on my back alot, which youre not supposed to do after 20 weeks or so. There is an artery that can get squished from the weight of the uterus/baby. Ive been waking up with an arm or leg asleep and yet its not under anything- its just from being on my back. I forgot to mention it to the dr today, but its something I really need to try to avoid- it cant be a good thing.
Today is Dans birthday, and we're going out for supper tonight. This weekend we are meeting either Mum and Dad, or Mum and my brother in NF- depending on which one they decide will be driving her. It will be nice to see them. I havent seen them since my baby shower in November. They cant come up here because Dad and my brother dont have passports yet.
Anyway, there isnt much else new at the moment. Will write again when something interesting happens.
Baby is still small she said, but very healthy. She is not worried about him at all. We do have to have another ultrasound in another week or so to check up on his growth. They think he is about 3 1/2 pounds now. Everything Ive read about growth at this point says most of them usually weigh around 4 pounds at this point, so he isnt far off. She said he is in the 9th percentile.
Either way, though, she said he is doing really well and she is not worried about him.
Night time has been bad for me the past few nights. I keep hoping it will change, but it doesnt really. Im actually thinking about having Dan bring the recliner up from the basement so I can try sleeping in it.
The problem is that when I lay on my left side, the baby gets mad at the mattress and beats on it. When I lay on my right side he puts his foot up under my ribs and it tickles like crazy. It feels like a bug crawling under my skin.
Also, Ive been ending up on my back alot, which youre not supposed to do after 20 weeks or so. There is an artery that can get squished from the weight of the uterus/baby. Ive been waking up with an arm or leg asleep and yet its not under anything- its just from being on my back. I forgot to mention it to the dr today, but its something I really need to try to avoid- it cant be a good thing.
Today is Dans birthday, and we're going out for supper tonight. This weekend we are meeting either Mum and Dad, or Mum and my brother in NF- depending on which one they decide will be driving her. It will be nice to see them. I havent seen them since my baby shower in November. They cant come up here because Dad and my brother dont have passports yet.
Anyway, there isnt much else new at the moment. Will write again when something interesting happens.
Monday, March 8, 2010
30 week ultrasound
This is the 30 week ultrasound picture from February 25th. We just scanned it today.
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Hospital tour,and sleepy baby.
We had our tour of L&D at the hospital yesterday evening. It makes me feel much more comfortable knowing what to expect there now. I think it makes it easier when you know exactly where you are going and what everything looks like. Parking might be a pain... I just hope Dan doesnt have to leave me for too long to find a parking spot.
Everything is really nice, and the rooms are really nice. Each room has a really big bath tub that you can use during labour. There is a bed (sort of) for Dan to sleep in if needed, or a chair that opens into a bed.
Baby finally wore himself out yesterday. He relaxed most of the day, and most of last night. Just a few little stretches here and there during the night last night. Today hes been taking it easy, too. I dont know what got into him this week.
We have pretty much everything we need for him now. Just a few little things left to buy. Im not going to buy anymore clothes until he gets here and I see how big he is. I think when it gets really warm this summer he will probably just be wearing onesies, anyway.
I do need to find his outfit to come home from the hospital in. Dans aunt is making a sweater and hat set for him, and I just need to find a nice little sleeper to go with it. I dont want him to be uncomfortable.
Dan put together his travel system last night, so we need to stop by the fire station one of these days and have them install the car seat base. Everyone says you should let them do it the first time, so I guess thats the plan.
Everything is really nice, and the rooms are really nice. Each room has a really big bath tub that you can use during labour. There is a bed (sort of) for Dan to sleep in if needed, or a chair that opens into a bed.
Baby finally wore himself out yesterday. He relaxed most of the day, and most of last night. Just a few little stretches here and there during the night last night. Today hes been taking it easy, too. I dont know what got into him this week.
We have pretty much everything we need for him now. Just a few little things left to buy. Im not going to buy anymore clothes until he gets here and I see how big he is. I think when it gets really warm this summer he will probably just be wearing onesies, anyway.
I do need to find his outfit to come home from the hospital in. Dans aunt is making a sweater and hat set for him, and I just need to find a nice little sleeper to go with it. I dont want him to be uncomfortable.
Dan put together his travel system last night, so we need to stop by the fire station one of these days and have them install the car seat base. Everyone says you should let them do it the first time, so I guess thats the plan.
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Baby octopus!
Baby has been having a really active couple of days, and nights. Starting Monday night he was moving all over the place, rolling, turning, punching, kicking.. he was up most of the night, which means I was up most of the night with him.
Tuesday morning I thought, ok surely he has worn himself out and will sleep most of the day. Wrong.. He did the exact same thing all day long. Night time comes, and Im thinking- ok surely he will sleep tonight. Theyre supposed to sleep around 18 hours a day right now. Hes got to be exhausted.
Wrong... He did the exact same thing pretty much all Tuesday night. At about 4am he gave me 5-6 really good hard punches right in the center of my belly.... I was just thinking, are you kidding me? How can you not be sleeping after all this time??
Wednesday I got up and went to Cambridge to buy the little monkey some clothes, and get my hair done, and he still continued all day. I couldnt believe it. I just kept telling Dan- I dont understand... theyre supposed to sleep 18 hours a day. Why isnt he tired yet??? He was driving me slightly out of my mind, and I was so tired from not sleeping much.
Finally Wednesday night (last night) comes and I think, again, surely he will sleep tonight. It didnt look good for a long time, and I had to get up a couple of times because I was so frustrated.. but he finally went to sleep. (Either that, or I was just so tired, I slept through it all.
When Dan came to bed he was feeling all of these movements and he couldnt believe it, either. I cant imagine what he was doing. I think maybe he is just growing so much now that he is running out of space, and he is also acting more like a newborn, I find.
He reacts very distinctly now to sounds, and I find myself slinking out of bed at night with as little movement as possible so he wont wake up. Same with turning over. I try to turn over really gently so he doesnt wake up and start pounding on me again. lol
Its really funny because I was just telling Dan last week that on the "Due in May 2010" forum that I read, there were a bunch of mums who were complaining about all the moving their baby does and how it was driving them crazy. I thought it was terrible. I told Dan "I would never complain about our baby moving around", "I love it when he moves around", Im just so happy to have him with me, and I get worried when he doesnt move around much." lol
I guess it depends on how much they are moving, because as much as I love my little octopus, he drove me nuts the last couple of nights. :-)
Tuesday morning I thought, ok surely he has worn himself out and will sleep most of the day. Wrong.. He did the exact same thing all day long. Night time comes, and Im thinking- ok surely he will sleep tonight. Theyre supposed to sleep around 18 hours a day right now. Hes got to be exhausted.
Wrong... He did the exact same thing pretty much all Tuesday night. At about 4am he gave me 5-6 really good hard punches right in the center of my belly.... I was just thinking, are you kidding me? How can you not be sleeping after all this time??
Wednesday I got up and went to Cambridge to buy the little monkey some clothes, and get my hair done, and he still continued all day. I couldnt believe it. I just kept telling Dan- I dont understand... theyre supposed to sleep 18 hours a day. Why isnt he tired yet??? He was driving me slightly out of my mind, and I was so tired from not sleeping much.
Finally Wednesday night (last night) comes and I think, again, surely he will sleep tonight. It didnt look good for a long time, and I had to get up a couple of times because I was so frustrated.. but he finally went to sleep. (Either that, or I was just so tired, I slept through it all.
When Dan came to bed he was feeling all of these movements and he couldnt believe it, either. I cant imagine what he was doing. I think maybe he is just growing so much now that he is running out of space, and he is also acting more like a newborn, I find.
He reacts very distinctly now to sounds, and I find myself slinking out of bed at night with as little movement as possible so he wont wake up. Same with turning over. I try to turn over really gently so he doesnt wake up and start pounding on me again. lol
Its really funny because I was just telling Dan last week that on the "Due in May 2010" forum that I read, there were a bunch of mums who were complaining about all the moving their baby does and how it was driving them crazy. I thought it was terrible. I told Dan "I would never complain about our baby moving around", "I love it when he moves around", Im just so happy to have him with me, and I get worried when he doesnt move around much." lol
I guess it depends on how much they are moving, because as much as I love my little octopus, he drove me nuts the last couple of nights. :-)
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
Think hard about it before you touch our baby.... :-)
This is a really interesting subject that keeps cropping up for us, and my brother opened up the conversation about it again today. Im sure he wont mind, so Im going to paste the email I got from him on here just because it is sooo true, and also so funny. He is a very protective Uncle, and lets us know if he thinks of something that could be harmful for the baby. Here is the message I got from him tonight:
Oh, God, Pri. I was at the photo drivers license center today getting my new license. There was this young guy in there with his 6 month old little baby. It was a very cute little baby, it was talking up a storm, I couldn't believe how much it vocalized. So this sort of disgusting looking older lady comes over and starts to ask him about the baby, how old is it, boy or girl, ect. Then, without any warning whatsoever, she reached out her filthy hand and touched that baby on it's little face and hands. I could see the poor father was appalled, and he even tried to object just as her hand reached that poor little baby's face, but stopped himself because it was already too late. All he managed to get out was "Ah...". I'm pretty sure the entire sentence would have been "Ah, please don't touch my child." I felt bad for him, and worse for the baby. I wanted to tell that old bat myself just how unbelievably rude it is to lay a hand on another persons child without being invited to do so. As in "Would you like to hold him/her?" It was an awful display. Then I thought of you. How in the world will you protect your baby from such prying potentially filthy and hazardous hands? She drove her filthy car, touched steering wheel, car doors, the main doors to the license center, and god only knows what else before offering that hoarde of germs up to baby's face. I was so appalled. Honestly, I consider it such an callous intrusion that I think I would reach out and slap someones hand away before it reached my baby's face, or touched my baby anywhere for that matter. I don't think I could help myself. You wouldn't reach out and touch ANY adults face upon meeting them, under any circumstances at all. Even blind people know better than to touch other peoples faces without permission for christs sake. What makes people think they can just waltz up and lay their hands on your child? I'm totally aghast. I have touched babies before when people have been deliberately presenting the child to me, but ONLY on their little feet. I'll reach out and wiggle the toe of their little booties or something, but I would never ever touch babies hands or face without a clear invitation to do so, and even then I'd make damn sure I washed my hands before handling baby at all. There aren't words to describe how appalled I am at that behavior, and it seems an almost universal human behavior. I'm going to scour the internet right now and get your baby a little hat or headband or something that says "LOOK BUT DON'T TOUCH" or just plain "KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF ME, STRANGER!". But people who are not strangers are probably the biggest culprits of all. I realize that babies have to be exposed to the germs of our world for their immune systems to develop, but I cannot see why it should ever happen THAT way. What ever will you do?
I laughed so hard when I read this, but it made start thinking again (for the millionth time) that this is very soon going to be an issue for us. One of my biggest fears is someone putting their finger in the baby's mouth... Be it stranger, relative, or friend. Ive often wondered exactly what I would say to someone in this situation and the more I think about it the more I think that when you do something that rude- you completely deserve whatever you get.
I have no problem smacking a strangers hand away from my baby when they reach for him. Its just not appropriate. Its not acceptable to go around touching other people, so why should it be ok to touch a baby?
The other issue that comes up is hand washing before handling the baby. It seems to me that it would just be common sense, but I assure you it is not. So many people try to hold someones baby and dont even make an attempt at washing their hands first.
We dont want to offend anyone, but at the same time, it is our job to do what is best for our baby and watch out for him. So.....please wash your hands before handling our baby, dont visit if you are sick, and PLEASE do not put your fingers in his mouth. lol
This is a link to a couple of funny blog posts that we found tonight about this issue:
http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/diaperbandit/archive/2007/07/09/strange-fingers.aspx
http://www.awesomebabyblog.com/archives/346
Oh, God, Pri. I was at the photo drivers license center today getting my new license. There was this young guy in there with his 6 month old little baby. It was a very cute little baby, it was talking up a storm, I couldn't believe how much it vocalized. So this sort of disgusting looking older lady comes over and starts to ask him about the baby, how old is it, boy or girl, ect. Then, without any warning whatsoever, she reached out her filthy hand and touched that baby on it's little face and hands. I could see the poor father was appalled, and he even tried to object just as her hand reached that poor little baby's face, but stopped himself because it was already too late. All he managed to get out was "Ah...". I'm pretty sure the entire sentence would have been "Ah, please don't touch my child." I felt bad for him, and worse for the baby. I wanted to tell that old bat myself just how unbelievably rude it is to lay a hand on another persons child without being invited to do so. As in "Would you like to hold him/her?" It was an awful display. Then I thought of you. How in the world will you protect your baby from such prying potentially filthy and hazardous hands? She drove her filthy car, touched steering wheel, car doors, the main doors to the license center, and god only knows what else before offering that hoarde of germs up to baby's face. I was so appalled. Honestly, I consider it such an callous intrusion that I think I would reach out and slap someones hand away before it reached my baby's face, or touched my baby anywhere for that matter. I don't think I could help myself. You wouldn't reach out and touch ANY adults face upon meeting them, under any circumstances at all. Even blind people know better than to touch other peoples faces without permission for christs sake. What makes people think they can just waltz up and lay their hands on your child? I'm totally aghast. I have touched babies before when people have been deliberately presenting the child to me, but ONLY on their little feet. I'll reach out and wiggle the toe of their little booties or something, but I would never ever touch babies hands or face without a clear invitation to do so, and even then I'd make damn sure I washed my hands before handling baby at all. There aren't words to describe how appalled I am at that behavior, and it seems an almost universal human behavior. I'm going to scour the internet right now and get your baby a little hat or headband or something that says "LOOK BUT DON'T TOUCH" or just plain "KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF ME, STRANGER!". But people who are not strangers are probably the biggest culprits of all. I realize that babies have to be exposed to the germs of our world for their immune systems to develop, but I cannot see why it should ever happen THAT way. What ever will you do?
I laughed so hard when I read this, but it made start thinking again (for the millionth time) that this is very soon going to be an issue for us. One of my biggest fears is someone putting their finger in the baby's mouth... Be it stranger, relative, or friend. Ive often wondered exactly what I would say to someone in this situation and the more I think about it the more I think that when you do something that rude- you completely deserve whatever you get.
I have no problem smacking a strangers hand away from my baby when they reach for him. Its just not appropriate. Its not acceptable to go around touching other people, so why should it be ok to touch a baby?
The other issue that comes up is hand washing before handling the baby. It seems to me that it would just be common sense, but I assure you it is not. So many people try to hold someones baby and dont even make an attempt at washing their hands first.
We dont want to offend anyone, but at the same time, it is our job to do what is best for our baby and watch out for him. So.....please wash your hands before handling our baby, dont visit if you are sick, and PLEASE do not put your fingers in his mouth. lol
This is a link to a couple of funny blog posts that we found tonight about this issue:
http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/diaperbandit/archive/2007/07/09/strange-fingers.aspx
http://www.awesomebabyblog.com/archives/346
Saturday, February 27, 2010
Thursday, February 25, 2010
30 week ultrasound- Still a BOY!
We had our ultrasound today at 30w4d. It was to follow up on the placenta and see if its still moving up and out of the way, and to take measurements of the baby.
He looked really good. He is really filling out, and we got some great pictures. He is most definitely a boy. I always ask them to check again because I hear so many stories of people being told baby is one thing and they come out something else. :-) It doesnt matter, of course, but its nice to know. The other really funny thing is that he has discovered that he is a boy, also. :-) When Dan came in after she had done all of her measurements and medical things, she was showing us live shots of him. She showed us his head, profile, all his limbs, etc.. and he reached down and was holding his little boy parts the rest of the time. Very funny. There isnt much else to play with in there, right? lol
He was laying on his right side with his head down and to my left, with his bum to the right of my belly button, then his legs were wrapped around to the left again. I love being able to see him every time we have an ultrasound. I really look forward to it.
I called the hospital today and made an appt to have the tour next Wednesday. I think it will make me feel a little more relaxed knowing what everything there looks like, and what to expect somewhat.
Our next ob appointment is March 10th, so we will find out then what the results were from todays ultrasound. It will be interesting to see if he is still a little smaller or what is going on with that. Every time she examines me and measures my belly, she says he is growing really well.
I finished his name letters yesterday. They look really cute. Maybe this weekend I can get Dan to hang them and his other wall decorations up on his wall. After the change table arrives his room will be completely finished and Ill post some pictures of it. Its really cute.
He looked really good. He is really filling out, and we got some great pictures. He is most definitely a boy. I always ask them to check again because I hear so many stories of people being told baby is one thing and they come out something else. :-) It doesnt matter, of course, but its nice to know. The other really funny thing is that he has discovered that he is a boy, also. :-) When Dan came in after she had done all of her measurements and medical things, she was showing us live shots of him. She showed us his head, profile, all his limbs, etc.. and he reached down and was holding his little boy parts the rest of the time. Very funny. There isnt much else to play with in there, right? lol
He was laying on his right side with his head down and to my left, with his bum to the right of my belly button, then his legs were wrapped around to the left again. I love being able to see him every time we have an ultrasound. I really look forward to it.
I called the hospital today and made an appt to have the tour next Wednesday. I think it will make me feel a little more relaxed knowing what everything there looks like, and what to expect somewhat.
Our next ob appointment is March 10th, so we will find out then what the results were from todays ultrasound. It will be interesting to see if he is still a little smaller or what is going on with that. Every time she examines me and measures my belly, she says he is growing really well.
I finished his name letters yesterday. They look really cute. Maybe this weekend I can get Dan to hang them and his other wall decorations up on his wall. After the change table arrives his room will be completely finished and Ill post some pictures of it. Its really cute.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
30 week OB appt.
Today was our 30 week ob appointment. She said baby is growing really well, and everything looks really good. He is in the same position today that he has been in the last two appointments. He is pretty much in the birth position but I dont know if he will stay that way.
It looks like my photography appointment will be on March 27th, and I should be almost 35 weeks at that point. Im going to try to book the belly casting for the weekend or week before that. Im excited to have those done. It will be a nice keepsake of my pregnancy.
My sore throat from thursday has turned into a full blown cold. Kind of miserable, but what can you do. Ive just been drinking alot of herbal tea and hoping it goes away soon. I dont really want to take any medication unless I have to. The dr told us today that she has another patient with a cold who broke one of her ribs from coughing. I guess she is pretty bad off because of it.
I can see how that could happen. My ribs are all pushed up and they creak when I take a deep breath. Ive been having trouble breathing just because of the baby pushing everything up int here, and its been so much worse now with a cold on top of it. Oh well, nothing to be done about it.
Will write again on Thursday after our ultrasound appt.
It looks like my photography appointment will be on March 27th, and I should be almost 35 weeks at that point. Im going to try to book the belly casting for the weekend or week before that. Im excited to have those done. It will be a nice keepsake of my pregnancy.
My sore throat from thursday has turned into a full blown cold. Kind of miserable, but what can you do. Ive just been drinking alot of herbal tea and hoping it goes away soon. I dont really want to take any medication unless I have to. The dr told us today that she has another patient with a cold who broke one of her ribs from coughing. I guess she is pretty bad off because of it.
I can see how that could happen. My ribs are all pushed up and they creak when I take a deep breath. Ive been having trouble breathing just because of the baby pushing everything up int here, and its been so much worse now with a cold on top of it. Oh well, nothing to be done about it.
Will write again on Thursday after our ultrasound appt.
Monday, February 22, 2010
Under my ribs.
Today is day one of week 30. We were supposed to go for our preregistration/birth clinic at the hospital, but I had to cancel it because I have a cold. I didnt want to take it in to the maternity floor there and risk new mums or babies getting sick.
The bummer is that I now have to wait until March 22nd to do it. I dont know if they only do this once a month, on the 22nd, or what is going on. I had a mild panic over it, though. Ive been getting really anxious the past couple of days.. I think its just knowing that Im almost there, now. I was really looking forward to the hospital tour today so that I could ask questions, and have a mental picture of where Ill be giving birth. I thought it would help calm me to know what to expect in that way.
There isnt much I can do, now. I am a little concerned that Im going to be 34 weeks by the time I get the prereg done, though. Thats really late. I have an appt with my ob tomorrow so I will ask if you can do the tour seperately from the prebirth clinic. I doubt it, but worth a try.
So baby has discovered a new trick this weekend. He can get up under my ribs now. It doesnt hurt at this point, it just tickles. Last night he was driving me slightly crazy with it, though. It felt like a big bug under my skin moving around. I cant move him out of there when he does that, so hopefully he doesnt keep doing it, or start hurting me in the process.
I started painting his name letters this morning. Im going to buy these little stars from Michaels and glue them on some of them.
Ill write again tomorrow after our dr appt.
The bummer is that I now have to wait until March 22nd to do it. I dont know if they only do this once a month, on the 22nd, or what is going on. I had a mild panic over it, though. Ive been getting really anxious the past couple of days.. I think its just knowing that Im almost there, now. I was really looking forward to the hospital tour today so that I could ask questions, and have a mental picture of where Ill be giving birth. I thought it would help calm me to know what to expect in that way.
There isnt much I can do, now. I am a little concerned that Im going to be 34 weeks by the time I get the prereg done, though. Thats really late. I have an appt with my ob tomorrow so I will ask if you can do the tour seperately from the prebirth clinic. I doubt it, but worth a try.
So baby has discovered a new trick this weekend. He can get up under my ribs now. It doesnt hurt at this point, it just tickles. Last night he was driving me slightly crazy with it, though. It felt like a big bug under my skin moving around. I cant move him out of there when he does that, so hopefully he doesnt keep doing it, or start hurting me in the process.
I started painting his name letters this morning. Im going to buy these little stars from Michaels and glue them on some of them.
Ill write again tomorrow after our dr appt.
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Nesting... :-)
Dan has been teasing me because Im trying to make my little baby nest. He put together the crib and the glider yesterday, and I got all of the bedding washed and put in the crib. It looks really cute. Im glad that we decided to paint his room, afterall. Its so nice and bright in there.
The only thing that is kind of irritating me is that we tried to order our change table from Sears yesterday and they are saying it wont be ready to pick up until March 11th. Thats almost a month away. I wasnt very happy about it. I know its not a big deal, but I am very much in nesting mode right now and it will make me feel much better when everything is completely finished in there.
Now that the crib is up and the bedding finished, I think Ill go to Michaels tomorrow and buy my name letters for his wall. Ive got the paint now, so it will give me something to work on next week. I thought by this time I would be so bored that I could scream, but honestly, the time is flying by. I am almost finished with month seven already.
We are going to Cambridge tonight to a couple of little baby stores to buy some more clothes to get him started. Mainly onesies and sleepers. I still have a list of things to buy before he gets here, but Im slowly getting there.
I need to look at a new pair of jeans, too. The ones I have now are from my first trimester and the band just isnt working out anymore. Its one of the smaller ones that are just 3-4 inches wide. It was fine for a long time but now my belly is so round that they just wont stay up and it drives me crazy.
We finally decided on a photographer to do my maternity/belly pictures. I just have to figure out when exactly to do them. I think not for another month yet.. but we'll see. I have to decide when to do my belly cast, too.
Next week we have another ultrasound, and ob visit. I probably wont be writing again until after that. Cant wait to see my little sweet pea again. :-)
The only thing that is kind of irritating me is that we tried to order our change table from Sears yesterday and they are saying it wont be ready to pick up until March 11th. Thats almost a month away. I wasnt very happy about it. I know its not a big deal, but I am very much in nesting mode right now and it will make me feel much better when everything is completely finished in there.
Now that the crib is up and the bedding finished, I think Ill go to Michaels tomorrow and buy my name letters for his wall. Ive got the paint now, so it will give me something to work on next week. I thought by this time I would be so bored that I could scream, but honestly, the time is flying by. I am almost finished with month seven already.
We are going to Cambridge tonight to a couple of little baby stores to buy some more clothes to get him started. Mainly onesies and sleepers. I still have a list of things to buy before he gets here, but Im slowly getting there.
I need to look at a new pair of jeans, too. The ones I have now are from my first trimester and the band just isnt working out anymore. Its one of the smaller ones that are just 3-4 inches wide. It was fine for a long time but now my belly is so round that they just wont stay up and it drives me crazy.
We finally decided on a photographer to do my maternity/belly pictures. I just have to figure out when exactly to do them. I think not for another month yet.. but we'll see. I have to decide when to do my belly cast, too.
Next week we have another ultrasound, and ob visit. I probably wont be writing again until after that. Cant wait to see my little sweet pea again. :-)
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Healthy baby
Today was our 28th week checkup. The ob says baby looks wonderful, and is growing really well. She said he is probably around 2 1/2- 3lbs now, but we will know for sure after the next ultrasound in two weeks. The ultrasound is to check up with the placenta and make sure it is still moving up and out of the way like it should.
We are now at the point where we will see her every two weeks. I cant believe that is how far along we are now, but we are. Only 2 1/2 months left! The time has gone by so fast, I really cant believe it.
I passed my glucose test, so thats wonderful- it means I do not have gestational diabetes. The nurse mentioned that my iron levels were very slightly low but nothing to worry about. Im just supposed to try to eat more red meat and beans to get some extra iron. I think the level it should be is something like 20 and Im 19.. (just an example, I cant remember what the actual number was) so its no big deal.
I bought the paint today for the baby's name letters that will be going on his wall. I still have to buy the letters at Michaels, so I might do that next week. Im not in a big hurry.
Jaunna and Lance are coming to visit this weekend, so that will be really nice. They should be here tomorrow afternoon some time.
We are now at the point where we will see her every two weeks. I cant believe that is how far along we are now, but we are. Only 2 1/2 months left! The time has gone by so fast, I really cant believe it.
I passed my glucose test, so thats wonderful- it means I do not have gestational diabetes. The nurse mentioned that my iron levels were very slightly low but nothing to worry about. Im just supposed to try to eat more red meat and beans to get some extra iron. I think the level it should be is something like 20 and Im 19.. (just an example, I cant remember what the actual number was) so its no big deal.
I bought the paint today for the baby's name letters that will be going on his wall. I still have to buy the letters at Michaels, so I might do that next week. Im not in a big hurry.
Jaunna and Lance are coming to visit this weekend, so that will be really nice. They should be here tomorrow afternoon some time.
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Not strained...just stretching.
This week (28 weeks) I finally figured something out. When I wrote before about wanting to get a maternity support belt because my belly felt strained during the night and in the morning...... its not muscle strain afterall. Its the baby stretching out in there. This week we've been thinking that he was curling up in a ball on the right side, and my entire belly goes lopsided to the right. Tonight we think that its actually his feet that he is pushing really hard to my right side.
When I lay on my left side before bed and read, the baby always gets bunched up on my right side, and I couldnt figure out how he was basically defying gravity to do that.
Tonight has been really fun for us. Dan always rubs lotion on my belly every night, and when he was done we could see the baby moving more than we ever have before from the outside. He started playing a little game with Dan where every time Dan would tap my belly on the right, he would kick back. Then after that he was moving all over the place and making my belly look like it was rolling and popping. Very cute.
Tomorrow is our next obgyn appt. If anything interesting or notable happens then I will update when we get home.
When I lay on my left side before bed and read, the baby always gets bunched up on my right side, and I couldnt figure out how he was basically defying gravity to do that.
Tonight has been really fun for us. Dan always rubs lotion on my belly every night, and when he was done we could see the baby moving more than we ever have before from the outside. He started playing a little game with Dan where every time Dan would tap my belly on the right, he would kick back. Then after that he was moving all over the place and making my belly look like it was rolling and popping. Very cute.
Tomorrow is our next obgyn appt. If anything interesting or notable happens then I will update when we get home.
Friday, February 5, 2010
All clear
We heard back from our family doctor yesterday with her second opinion about the Vasa Previa issue.
She said that the only thing the 20 week ultrasound showed for certain was that I had Placenta Previa. The velementous cord insertion, and Vasa Previa were "suggestive."
The 25 week ultrasound showed that I no longer had Placenta Previa. It moved up away from the cervix and was just low lying at that point. There were no signs of abnormal uteran vessels, and the cord was ok.
The only thing we can come up with is that because the obygn was so behind, and therefore so busy, that day- she didnt actually read through my whole report. Or possibly that she just mispoke and instead of saying that I probably had vasa previa, she said that I did have it. Possibly she just wanted to make sure that I took it really easy since there was a possibility of it, and figured that we would find out for sure with the follow up ultrasound. Either way, its is very good news- but unfortunate that we were put through so much worry over something we didnt even have.
Our family dr thought it would be a good idea to have an ultrasound around 32 weeks, but said that would be the obgyn's decision to make. My next appt with the ob is on February 11th.
On a better note, we have ltos to look forward to over the next week. Tomorrow is our baby shower that Dans mum is throwing for us. That will be fun, and really nice to see everyone.
Next weekend Jaunna and Lance are coming to visit from Pa for the weekend. I dont get visitors very often at all, so its nice to see faces from home.
Last night was our last childbirth education class. She talked about mother care after delivery, and baby care. We were undecided about whether or not we should buy a baby carrier, but after last night I think we've decided that we will. We'll start with one of the slings, and then if Dan decides carrying the baby when we are out and about is something he wants to do, then he will get one for himself. (He doesnt want to use the sling in public, long story... lol)
We are doing really well, though. Everyones happy and healthy.
She said that the only thing the 20 week ultrasound showed for certain was that I had Placenta Previa. The velementous cord insertion, and Vasa Previa were "suggestive."
The 25 week ultrasound showed that I no longer had Placenta Previa. It moved up away from the cervix and was just low lying at that point. There were no signs of abnormal uteran vessels, and the cord was ok.
The only thing we can come up with is that because the obygn was so behind, and therefore so busy, that day- she didnt actually read through my whole report. Or possibly that she just mispoke and instead of saying that I probably had vasa previa, she said that I did have it. Possibly she just wanted to make sure that I took it really easy since there was a possibility of it, and figured that we would find out for sure with the follow up ultrasound. Either way, its is very good news- but unfortunate that we were put through so much worry over something we didnt even have.
Our family dr thought it would be a good idea to have an ultrasound around 32 weeks, but said that would be the obgyn's decision to make. My next appt with the ob is on February 11th.
On a better note, we have ltos to look forward to over the next week. Tomorrow is our baby shower that Dans mum is throwing for us. That will be fun, and really nice to see everyone.
Next weekend Jaunna and Lance are coming to visit from Pa for the weekend. I dont get visitors very often at all, so its nice to see faces from home.
Last night was our last childbirth education class. She talked about mother care after delivery, and baby care. We were undecided about whether or not we should buy a baby carrier, but after last night I think we've decided that we will. We'll start with one of the slings, and then if Dan decides carrying the baby when we are out and about is something he wants to do, then he will get one for himself. (He doesnt want to use the sling in public, long story... lol)
We are doing really well, though. Everyones happy and healthy.
Monday, February 1, 2010
Third trimester, 12 more weeks to D-Day!
Today is officially the first day of the seventh month, and the third trimester! I cant believe how fast this pregnancy is going. D-Day will be here before I know it.
I just had a really big supper. I decided to finally just have whatever I wanted and not think about calories or anything else. So I had a bagel with cream cheese and tater tots, and quite a few slices of pepperoni while I was waiting for the tater tots to cook. Okay, half the package.. but who is counting. :-D
We're going to the store tonight to buy a heating pad because my back is killing me. Im hoping that will help it. Hot baths help, but its hard for me to haul myself in and out these days. lol
I just had a really big supper. I decided to finally just have whatever I wanted and not think about calories or anything else. So I had a bagel with cream cheese and tater tots, and quite a few slices of pepperoni while I was waiting for the tater tots to cook. Okay, half the package.. but who is counting. :-D
We're going to the store tonight to buy a heating pad because my back is killing me. Im hoping that will help it. Hot baths help, but its hard for me to haul myself in and out these days. lol
Friday, January 29, 2010
I love my little pillow!!! :-D
So, I went to the maternity store the other night in search of a maternity support belt that I thought would help ease that straining I was feeling in my belly every night. I tried one on, and realised that it was not going to do what I wanted it to do, and baby did not like it at all. Well, he either didnt like it or he was just kicking out of reflex- we'll never know.
Anyway, I told the saleswoman what I wanted it for and she said that it would not help with that at all. It is meant for back pain during the day. Looking back, I should have bought it anyway, for that reason. My back has really been hurting lately.. usually in the evening.
The saleswoman told me the same thing anyone else I ask tells me- use a pillow under your belly at night. The problem with this is that pillows are usually to big and it makes me even more uncomfortable. I tried using a folded up towel, and that worked for a little while but still wasnt right.
So I went over to Walmart to see if they had a body pillow or something that was at least thinner than what Ive been trying. I found this little travel pillow that was only three dollars. It looks just like a regular pillow only tiny. I figured I had nothing to lose since it was so cheap.
It turns out that that little pillow is just a dream come true for me, and I would recommend it to anyone with this problem. The last two nights have been the best night sleep I have had in 6 months. My belly doesnt hurt anymore when I shift from left side to right, and it doesnt hurt when I get up in the morning. How wonderful..................
Anyway, I told the saleswoman what I wanted it for and she said that it would not help with that at all. It is meant for back pain during the day. Looking back, I should have bought it anyway, for that reason. My back has really been hurting lately.. usually in the evening.
The saleswoman told me the same thing anyone else I ask tells me- use a pillow under your belly at night. The problem with this is that pillows are usually to big and it makes me even more uncomfortable. I tried using a folded up towel, and that worked for a little while but still wasnt right.
So I went over to Walmart to see if they had a body pillow or something that was at least thinner than what Ive been trying. I found this little travel pillow that was only three dollars. It looks just like a regular pillow only tiny. I figured I had nothing to lose since it was so cheap.
It turns out that that little pillow is just a dream come true for me, and I would recommend it to anyone with this problem. The last two nights have been the best night sleep I have had in 6 months. My belly doesnt hurt anymore when I shift from left side to right, and it doesnt hurt when I get up in the morning. How wonderful..................
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Glucose test
I had my glucose test this afternoon, and it went really well. I was a little nervous about it because there are a few mums on the forum I read who said they got really sick and dizzy during it.
I didnt have any trouble at all. You drink a bottle of something that looks and tastes like orange pop, only doesnt taste as sweet as that. You have to drink it in five minutes, and then one hour later they take some blood.
If I pass it then it means I dont have gestational diabetes. If I fail it then I have to take another test only that one is three hours instead of one. I dont see any reason why I wouldnt pass this one, though. Im not over weight, I dont have high blood pressure, and baby is measuring smaller rather than bigger. All good signs that I dont have GD.
I have to go to the maternity shop this afternoon, and try to find a belly support belt. I had a really bad night last night and when I woke up this morning I felt like the muscles in the very front of my lower tummy were all ripped... it didnt feel good.
They tell me I cant sleep on my back, so it has to be one side or the other. I flip back and forth constantly all night. Pillows are too thick to support my belly so the past week or so I have started using a folded up towel instead. That helps a bit, but Im beginning to think maybe a belt would be even better.
What happens is when I lay on my side for a little bit everything stretches to that side, including baby. He gets comfy and curled up in one spot and then when I move to the other side, hes still curled up in that same spot. It pulls, and hurts a fair bit. It is funny looking, though, because when I lay on my back on the way to rolling to my other side, my belly is all hard and lopsided. Baby moves when Dan rubs my belly, but not when I rub it.
So, my idea is that if I wear a support belt to bed it might be less painful when I switch from side to side. Baby cant be more than 1 or 1 1/2 lbs at this point... I just keep wondering what its going to feel like when he is 6,7, or 8 lbs. My belly is already pretty big, so I think Im going to look pretty ridiculous by the time Im 8 or 9 months. :-) Not that I mind. We're excited to have him with us, and cant wait to see his little face.
I didnt have any trouble at all. You drink a bottle of something that looks and tastes like orange pop, only doesnt taste as sweet as that. You have to drink it in five minutes, and then one hour later they take some blood.
If I pass it then it means I dont have gestational diabetes. If I fail it then I have to take another test only that one is three hours instead of one. I dont see any reason why I wouldnt pass this one, though. Im not over weight, I dont have high blood pressure, and baby is measuring smaller rather than bigger. All good signs that I dont have GD.
I have to go to the maternity shop this afternoon, and try to find a belly support belt. I had a really bad night last night and when I woke up this morning I felt like the muscles in the very front of my lower tummy were all ripped... it didnt feel good.
They tell me I cant sleep on my back, so it has to be one side or the other. I flip back and forth constantly all night. Pillows are too thick to support my belly so the past week or so I have started using a folded up towel instead. That helps a bit, but Im beginning to think maybe a belt would be even better.
What happens is when I lay on my side for a little bit everything stretches to that side, including baby. He gets comfy and curled up in one spot and then when I move to the other side, hes still curled up in that same spot. It pulls, and hurts a fair bit. It is funny looking, though, because when I lay on my back on the way to rolling to my other side, my belly is all hard and lopsided. Baby moves when Dan rubs my belly, but not when I rub it.
So, my idea is that if I wear a support belt to bed it might be less painful when I switch from side to side. Baby cant be more than 1 or 1 1/2 lbs at this point... I just keep wondering what its going to feel like when he is 6,7, or 8 lbs. My belly is already pretty big, so I think Im going to look pretty ridiculous by the time Im 8 or 9 months. :-) Not that I mind. We're excited to have him with us, and cant wait to see his little face.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Undiagnosed.......
We had the appt with the obgyn this morning, and the latest is that I no longer have Placenta Previa. She said it has moved away from the cervix, and is now considered a low lying placenta. It is approx 3 cm away from the cervix now instead of partially covering it.
She also says there is no sign of Vasa Previa. I am now considered a normal, healthy pregnancy and can expect a vaginal birth. I can slowly get back into exercise again, and am off pelvic rest. This is all wonderful news, of course, but now we both have this lingering worry about the Vasa Previa because it is such a dangerous condition and nothing to play with. We're not really sure how they can go from saying everything they did in the beginning, and now saying that we dont have it.
We also had an appt with our family dr this afternoon to see what she thinks of it all. The records and reports that were sent to her were very messy and almost unreadable but from what she could gather, there never was a certainty that we had Vasa Previa. That it was just likely that I had it.
She is going to contact the radiologist and find out exactly what the findings were, and get a more clear report of what went on. We should be hearing back from her within a week.
So we are happy on one hand, and still a little leery on the other hand. I think depending on what the family dr says when she gets back to us, we should at least ask for another ultrasound or something.
The obgyn also told us that the baby is measuring small. She said he is in the 29th percentile, which means if he was in a room with 100 babies his age- there would be 70 bigger than him and 20 smaller than him. She didnt seem at all concerned, and said that its actually better because you dont want a really big baby, right?
Im supposed to go next week for my glucose test which determines if you have gestational diabetes. You have to go to the lab and drink an orange pop type of sugar drink and then an hour later they test your blood.
At any rate, that is all the news for now. I feel really good. My appetite is getting pretty enormous, but thats to be expected. My cravings are still really healthy, though. Pretty much still citrus fruit, especially clementines. My weight gain is on track, and baby boy is healthy and thriving.
She also says there is no sign of Vasa Previa. I am now considered a normal, healthy pregnancy and can expect a vaginal birth. I can slowly get back into exercise again, and am off pelvic rest. This is all wonderful news, of course, but now we both have this lingering worry about the Vasa Previa because it is such a dangerous condition and nothing to play with. We're not really sure how they can go from saying everything they did in the beginning, and now saying that we dont have it.
We also had an appt with our family dr this afternoon to see what she thinks of it all. The records and reports that were sent to her were very messy and almost unreadable but from what she could gather, there never was a certainty that we had Vasa Previa. That it was just likely that I had it.
She is going to contact the radiologist and find out exactly what the findings were, and get a more clear report of what went on. We should be hearing back from her within a week.
So we are happy on one hand, and still a little leery on the other hand. I think depending on what the family dr says when she gets back to us, we should at least ask for another ultrasound or something.
The obgyn also told us that the baby is measuring small. She said he is in the 29th percentile, which means if he was in a room with 100 babies his age- there would be 70 bigger than him and 20 smaller than him. She didnt seem at all concerned, and said that its actually better because you dont want a really big baby, right?
Im supposed to go next week for my glucose test which determines if you have gestational diabetes. You have to go to the lab and drink an orange pop type of sugar drink and then an hour later they test your blood.
At any rate, that is all the news for now. I feel really good. My appetite is getting pretty enormous, but thats to be expected. My cravings are still really healthy, though. Pretty much still citrus fruit, especially clementines. My weight gain is on track, and baby boy is healthy and thriving.
Saturday, January 16, 2010
2 weeks until third trimester
So Ive noticed that my pregnancy seems to be going very fast. Im 24 weeks 6 days today. I have a little chart on my fridge that breaks up the weeks into months and trimesters, and I was looking at it today and realised that in two weeks I will be in the third trimester..... I cant believe that.
Ive been getting more uncomfortable lately, so I guess it makes sense. Im farther into this than I actually realized. D-day is quickly approaching. lol My lower back has been hurting alot, and I have no bendability at all in my middle (thats been gone for quite awhile, actually). If something drops on the floor, or especially on the floor of the car when Im in it- it stays there. lol
Im trying to get things organized as much as possible. I am really in big time nesting mode right now. I think we have pretty much decided on cloth diapers so I need to talk to the diaper service we're going to use, and also try to find the right type of diaper covers for him. Some of them look so uncomfortable, so hopefully we can find something that wont be too bad for him. Its also hard to buy things like that yet because we dont know if hes going to be a preemie or not.
Im hoping we get a definite diagnosis on Wednesday about the vasa previa issue because I would like to start looking at his coming home outfit. I think we'll do a nice sleeper, with a knitted sweater/hat set to match it. I want him to be comfortable in whatever it is. Again though, I have to wait in case he is a preemie.
Anyway, we're anxiously waiting for that appt on Wednesday. I tried to get in earlier but she snot in on Monday, and she is in surgery all day Tuesday. I did make an appt with our family dr for the afternoon on Wednesday so that we can see what her thoughts are on everything, and to let her know about all of this. We havent seen her since this diagnosis was actually made, so she has no idea. Also, if the obgyn appt doesnt go well, we want our family dr to send us for a second opinion.
I probably wont be writing now until Wednesday or Thursday. Hopefully it is with good news!
Ive been getting more uncomfortable lately, so I guess it makes sense. Im farther into this than I actually realized. D-day is quickly approaching. lol My lower back has been hurting alot, and I have no bendability at all in my middle (thats been gone for quite awhile, actually). If something drops on the floor, or especially on the floor of the car when Im in it- it stays there. lol
Im trying to get things organized as much as possible. I am really in big time nesting mode right now. I think we have pretty much decided on cloth diapers so I need to talk to the diaper service we're going to use, and also try to find the right type of diaper covers for him. Some of them look so uncomfortable, so hopefully we can find something that wont be too bad for him. Its also hard to buy things like that yet because we dont know if hes going to be a preemie or not.
Im hoping we get a definite diagnosis on Wednesday about the vasa previa issue because I would like to start looking at his coming home outfit. I think we'll do a nice sleeper, with a knitted sweater/hat set to match it. I want him to be comfortable in whatever it is. Again though, I have to wait in case he is a preemie.
Anyway, we're anxiously waiting for that appt on Wednesday. I tried to get in earlier but she snot in on Monday, and she is in surgery all day Tuesday. I did make an appt with our family dr for the afternoon on Wednesday so that we can see what her thoughts are on everything, and to let her know about all of this. We havent seen her since this diagnosis was actually made, so she has no idea. Also, if the obgyn appt doesnt go well, we want our family dr to send us for a second opinion.
I probably wont be writing now until Wednesday or Thursday. Hopefully it is with good news!
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Nursery
We're finally getting started on the nursery. We went to Ikea over the weekend and bought the shelving, drawers, and toy boxes that we're using in his closet. Dan is working on that now, and then he will be painting the rest of the room. We're doing a very soft, light blue. It will go best with his crib set and furniture. The crib and change table we registered are white, and the bedding is pastel moon and stars.
We decided on white furniture because the room is really small and we thought anything dark would just make it seem even smaller. One of my brothers bought us a nice glider for our baby shower in Pa, so that will be nice when it gets here.
I definitely am in nesting mode at the moment. I feel really anxious to get everything he needs ready for him. I suppose thats normal.
I will post some pictures of his room when its all finished and ready.
We decided on white furniture because the room is really small and we thought anything dark would just make it seem even smaller. One of my brothers bought us a nice glider for our baby shower in Pa, so that will be nice when it gets here.
I definitely am in nesting mode at the moment. I feel really anxious to get everything he needs ready for him. I suppose thats normal.
I will post some pictures of his room when its all finished and ready.
Friday, January 8, 2010
Wait and see
We went to our appt with the ob yesterday. She now says that they are not certain that I have vasa previa, and that they want to keep an eye on it to see if it changes. The information was kind of wishy washy, with nothing certain.
I do have partial anterior placenta previa, which means the placenta is partially covering the cervix in the back. She says that she wants to watch this and see if it moves up out of the way during the pregnancy. Also, at the same time she will be watching the vasa previa to see if it moves also. (The vasa previa that she says I might not have, that is.)
She also said I have probable velamentous cord insertion.
The last time I went in and was "diagnosed", I was told with certainty that I have these two conditions, that I would be getting an early csection and would be hospitalised several weeks beforehand. Now she is not even sure that I will be having a csection, and says I will not be hospitalised unless I have trouble with bleeding.
I cannot worry about this the way I have been because it just makes it that much harder on me. I have to wait every three weeks to have the ultrasounds that will "keep an eye on it". Over the past two weeks I had to condition my mind that I would be having a csection, and now I have to recondition it that I may be having a natural childbirth.
Depending on what the next ultrasound shows, I think we will be requesting that our family doctor send us for a second opinion.
On a better note, we had our first Childbirth Education class last night. It went really well, and the instructor is really good. She said it was one of the smallest groups she has ever had- there were four couples including us. She is very thorough and knowledgeable, and hopefully we will learn alot.
I do have partial anterior placenta previa, which means the placenta is partially covering the cervix in the back. She says that she wants to watch this and see if it moves up out of the way during the pregnancy. Also, at the same time she will be watching the vasa previa to see if it moves also. (The vasa previa that she says I might not have, that is.)
She also said I have probable velamentous cord insertion.
The last time I went in and was "diagnosed", I was told with certainty that I have these two conditions, that I would be getting an early csection and would be hospitalised several weeks beforehand. Now she is not even sure that I will be having a csection, and says I will not be hospitalised unless I have trouble with bleeding.
I cannot worry about this the way I have been because it just makes it that much harder on me. I have to wait every three weeks to have the ultrasounds that will "keep an eye on it". Over the past two weeks I had to condition my mind that I would be having a csection, and now I have to recondition it that I may be having a natural childbirth.
Depending on what the next ultrasound shows, I think we will be requesting that our family doctor send us for a second opinion.
On a better note, we had our first Childbirth Education class last night. It went really well, and the instructor is really good. She said it was one of the smallest groups she has ever had- there were four couples including us. She is very thorough and knowledgeable, and hopefully we will learn alot.
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
New appt time
I decided yesterday that I was not going to wait until Jan 20th to get some answers about my situation. I called the obs office and told them that, and also that Im getting myself too worked up over everything the more time goes by. I think what really did it was I looked at our hospitals NICU information on their website and found out that depending on how serious our situation is- we might not even be at our hospital. We might be at a hospital thats an hour or more away, or one thats 45 min or so away.
I want whats best for the baby, but this scares me because if an emergency happened while I was waiting for my scheduled csection and they had to do an emergency csection, Dan would never make it there in time.
So anyway, I see the ob on Thursday. Will write after that and update on what is going on.
I want whats best for the baby, but this scares me because if an emergency happened while I was waiting for my scheduled csection and they had to do an emergency csection, Dan would never make it there in time.
So anyway, I see the ob on Thursday. Will write after that and update on what is going on.
Monday, January 4, 2010
Holidays are over, back to baby prep
Now that the holidays are over, we're trying to get the house and everything back to normal. Its time to really buckle down with the baby's room, and everything that needs to be organized for him (and his possibly early arrival).
We are finishing our registries hopefully this week at Babies R Us and Sears. Our baby shower will probably be in the beginning/mid February. We wanted to have it a little early so that I have time to get things organized before they put me in the hospital.
We decided to paint baby's room very light blue, and Dan is going to build shelves into his closet so that he has somewhere for his clothes, and a toy box at the bottom. His room is really small, so we have to make the most of the space in there.
On New Year's Eve we got to see baby boy move from the outside for the first time. I was sitting on the couch and he gave me a couple of really strong kicks, and I thought to myself- there is no way you cant see those right through my belly. So I lifted up my sweater and sure enough he did it a couple more times. Thankfully Dan was there and he got to see it, he usually misses these things. Baby doesnt always kick that hard, but when he does, he really does.
My next appt is January 20th and I am really anxious about it. I have to have an ultrasound to look at the vasa previa/placenta previa issue on Jan 13th, also. We're more than a little ticked that the Dr just dropped that bomb on me and then didnt even take the time to really explain it very well. We found out alot of our information online and through The International Vasa Previa Foundation.
Ive joined a couple of Vasa Previa groups on facebook, and 1 on Yahoo, so that has been helpful. I have found a couple of women on the facebook group who have delivered babies and had vasa previa. Its nice to have other women to ask questions.
It appears as though the usual way of handling this is hospitalization at around 30 weeks, and csection no later than 35. We will see what the Dr has to say on the 20th, and she had best hope that she has a plan.
We start our Childbirth Education class this week. The first couple of classes wont really be that relevant to us since we are having a c section but it will be nice to meet some other couples who are around the same point in their pregnancies as us.
I contacted a few maternity photographers in the area over the holidays and I think we have decided on one of them. I have to wait until I see what the Dr says about when I will be hospitalized before I can arrange a date for it. We're going to buy a maternity/newborn package, and then we'll have nice pictures of him when he is new also. Im hoping I can make it around 30 weeks but I guess that depends on how everything goes.
I also contacted a Doula who does belly casting. We were going to do it ourselves originally, but its not much more to have her do it-then we dont have to worry about the mess and we know it will be done well by someone who has done it before. Again- Im going to try to wait as long as possible to do that, too, so my belly is nice and big.
Im really hoping that nothing happens to prevent me being able to do one or both of these things. Its really important to me since we're most likely only having one child. I want some beautiful memories to have from it.
I probably wont be writing again now until after my next appt unless something else interesting comes up before then.
We are finishing our registries hopefully this week at Babies R Us and Sears. Our baby shower will probably be in the beginning/mid February. We wanted to have it a little early so that I have time to get things organized before they put me in the hospital.
We decided to paint baby's room very light blue, and Dan is going to build shelves into his closet so that he has somewhere for his clothes, and a toy box at the bottom. His room is really small, so we have to make the most of the space in there.
On New Year's Eve we got to see baby boy move from the outside for the first time. I was sitting on the couch and he gave me a couple of really strong kicks, and I thought to myself- there is no way you cant see those right through my belly. So I lifted up my sweater and sure enough he did it a couple more times. Thankfully Dan was there and he got to see it, he usually misses these things. Baby doesnt always kick that hard, but when he does, he really does.
My next appt is January 20th and I am really anxious about it. I have to have an ultrasound to look at the vasa previa/placenta previa issue on Jan 13th, also. We're more than a little ticked that the Dr just dropped that bomb on me and then didnt even take the time to really explain it very well. We found out alot of our information online and through The International Vasa Previa Foundation.
Ive joined a couple of Vasa Previa groups on facebook, and 1 on Yahoo, so that has been helpful. I have found a couple of women on the facebook group who have delivered babies and had vasa previa. Its nice to have other women to ask questions.
It appears as though the usual way of handling this is hospitalization at around 30 weeks, and csection no later than 35. We will see what the Dr has to say on the 20th, and she had best hope that she has a plan.
We start our Childbirth Education class this week. The first couple of classes wont really be that relevant to us since we are having a c section but it will be nice to meet some other couples who are around the same point in their pregnancies as us.
I contacted a few maternity photographers in the area over the holidays and I think we have decided on one of them. I have to wait until I see what the Dr says about when I will be hospitalized before I can arrange a date for it. We're going to buy a maternity/newborn package, and then we'll have nice pictures of him when he is new also. Im hoping I can make it around 30 weeks but I guess that depends on how everything goes.
I also contacted a Doula who does belly casting. We were going to do it ourselves originally, but its not much more to have her do it-then we dont have to worry about the mess and we know it will be done well by someone who has done it before. Again- Im going to try to wait as long as possible to do that, too, so my belly is nice and big.
Im really hoping that nothing happens to prevent me being able to do one or both of these things. Its really important to me since we're most likely only having one child. I want some beautiful memories to have from it.
I probably wont be writing again now until after my next appt unless something else interesting comes up before then.
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